How Can I Ask Her Out Again Without Embarrasing Myself??

Question

Okay, I'm a senior in high school and this past spring I was pursuing this girl who seemed to be interested in me. Things were goin well and I asked her to hang out and she gave me her number but then it was just all downhill from there...I tried callin her a few times but she would say she was busy...I never really understood what went wrong but I just let it go and moved on. However, I like her again now. I know it's stupid but I cant help it. I really want to give it another shot, but if I ask her out again she would think I'm ridiculous for not taking the hint awhile ago and she would think that I had never gotten over it all the while. How can I do it in a way that doesn't set me up for humiliation...P.S. It's not so much that I'm afraid of the rejection, it's just that there's no reason to embarass myself if it can be avoided, and if i just straight up ask her out she'll probably say no bcuz why would she change her mind all of sudden

Answer 1

Dude, go for it. If she doesn't like, then you'll know the truth.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

OK ,first yes it is ok to ask her out again. the question is how?
make sure she is not in a relationship at present.
If you still have her number Give her a call with caller ID off so she cant see the name. if she knows who you are then its good and bad
Because that means that she still has feelings for you and that you blew her off.
Then a day or two later ask her again. she will say yes

PS when you ask her say that the last time you were confused and wasnt thinking straingh. never blame the girl.

GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

Take the chance. The fact that you are willing to put yourself out there a second time will stay with her even if the two of you don't end up together. Woman of all ages appreciate a guy who can be honest and strait forward. Good Luck

Answer 4

If you can do this, then it might change you.

Randomly walk up to five girls at different times in different places over the next week or two. One rule:You can't know them.

Try and get their number; don't be corny, just say hi. If you can talk and don't have horns, then you should be alright.

If you don't, then smile and walk away.

If you do, then don't call them back until you've talked to at least the five girls.

Then ask yourself, "Do I really want to chase a girl that isn't interested in me?"

If the answer is yes, then call her.

Answer 5

I'd definitely say start dating some other girls. She'll give you subtle hints if she does like you. It's all part of their games. Remember, to be a player, you need to appear busy, not desperate. If you were Orlando Bloom, would she act differently around you? So bust out the breath fresheners and get your mack on.

Answer 6

Ask her to hang out with you in a more group setting - some friends getting together to go to a movie, or something like that. Give her a chance to get to know you better, and see if she's interested. She'll give you clues if she's interested in going out with just you from there.

Answer 7

look if she's not interested in you its her loss

think of it that way

and who knows maybe she is interested in you, being a girl, i can say from experience that we change who we like pretty often

unless at that time she had had a boyfriend and didn't want to let you down

however, i think you should take the chance and the worst that can happen is she'll say no but its her loss

Answer 8

go up to this person and act like you called her a couple of times but forgot why she did not call back or just come out and let her know i want to be friends does she.act like you had a lot of things to do that summer and now you have the time to hang out.

Answer 9

It's really not an embarrassing question and a doctor will think nothing of it. As the others have said just go and see one and get it sorted.

Answer 10

Try a good conversation, few laughs, spend time together might change her mind.