It´s possible to be fall in love with two persons at the same time??

Question

I mean, if they are very different but you feel that you really enjoy a lot being with them cause you have a high quality of time with each one and you feel that you need the friendship and love from each one. No puritan responses please.

Answer 1

i think its possible, But first i think you have to really decide what love is. There are many kinds of love, passionate, loving, stable etc. but if your talking about true heart stopping love song love then i think no. you should only give your heart to the person who best deserves it

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Answer 2

why no puritan responses? what'd you mean?

I think that most puritanical people, like everyone else love more than one person...

We're human and I think it's in the human nature to love copiously. The only thing that stops us is etiquette in private situations where there are few people involved or society itself because of our dynamics.

if the man to woman ratio had always been very steeply ratiod in favour of women then men would have it well in many ways and though women would have more power, men would have more sex.

A good example is east and north east africa in pre-slavery times when things were quite matriarchal, so it didn't matter what dad you were born to just what mum and the men had little say in major decisions because they were too busy bringing food and working while the women were off deciding everything. this trend survived naturally through slavery and it might be a contributing factor why an overwhelming number of carribran families do not have responsible fathers if any, and many of those that do have fathers that were raised or educated differently or elsewhere altogether.

I love 95% of the people I know. i still love all my old girlfriends despite all the breakup politics that went on. I think most people do. is that wrong? surely it's normal?

Answer 3

Yes i think this is totally possible. The only thing is that what you qualify as love for each of them differs. Let me explain, say you have 2 persons in your life and each one of them has their own way of making you feel happy. At the end of the day if when you are with one you don't think of the other and you spend isolated time with both then sure you can love two person at a time and share nice moments with both without this affecting the relationship you share with the other.

Answer 4

Everyone says "Oh it's not love if you love more than one" but infatuation is different. It's this wonderful loving feeling where you love practically EVERYTHING about a person, the kind of giggly feeling where you write I heart *insert name here* over everything. Infatuation is like a beautiful bouquet of flowers, it lives and dies and you can have more than one of all different types and it can be kind of confusing, but very, very enjoyable. Love itself is more like the kind of thing that old people have, and as a horribly romantic lovesick teenager, I know that you're going to constantly change the definition of it. Only after a crush or infatuation is over will most people admit "Okay, that one wasn't love, but THIS [new crush] is!" So I'll just end with a line from this book called Adverbs by Daniel Handler that I really like: "All over the world are particular people, and you could be happy with probably five or six of them, eight if you're bisexual and everyone is. And so the happiness is not particular, and so you cannot be particular, or all you will have at the end of the night is a purse full of complaints to your mother"

Answer 5

Hey, now..that's difficult. I think that you CAN love 2 people at the same time. But, I don't think it would be fair to you or the 2 other people. It would be hard to be IN LOVE with two different at the same time.

To be in love, you have to give your heart and soul to them. You'd expect the same in return. There's only enough time in the world to love and learn about one person...and to share your lives together. Another person would just be a third wheel and not get the affection that he/she deserved.

It IS possible to Love more than one person. You just have to chose which one.

Answer 6

Somebodys going to get hurt! It is possible, but do you really want to put them both through it?! You can't love them that much as you would of chosen one by now! so no one got hurt! Maybe you just need the company! or you need to find 1 woman who ticks all the boxes!

Answer 7

Are you still with both of them?
It's very possible to be in love with two persons.
If you are the one of that photography, I offer to be the third in discord.
And I pardon you by the other two witches!

You'd broken "my heart"!
Those abdominal of the other photography are also yours?

Oh my God!!!

Answer 8

I think that you are confusing love with lust.

If you love somebody then there is no room in your life for anyone else. This I know for sure because I love my partner .

But !!! Even though I love only one, I still lust after many others.

Its' normal in males, if you ain't male you're screwed sweetie.

Answer 9

Absolutely it is possible.

I would NOT want to be in that situation myself.

Is it right?
Well...that wasn't your question...so as much as i'd love to...
I will chose NOT to go there....but yes...absolutely possible to love two people at the same time.

Answer 10

1 person at a time, in the end you will be hurt one or another, and you can even hurt your self, may be it will be a threesome but it didn't mean anything, in the end you still have to choose one or another, it's complicated.........I like a lot of girl in school but some of them mean special to me and i don't want to lose them, i can't just decided tho......