theres this girl that i use to be frends with that just started saying stuff about me that wasnt true and started hating me for no reason i tried to ignore her but its hard not to
HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-11-16 13:29:53 · 8 answers · asked by mrs.urie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and shes turning all my "frends" against me!!!!!!
2006-11-16 13:32:44 · update #1
she goes around telling people im a w****re and sl**
2006-11-16 13:38:10 · update #2
don't let her get to you...surround yourself with people that DON'T talk bad about you! :)
2006-11-16 13:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Yanks4Life23519 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's wired to hurt you. Tell her what you feel ONCE. Then leave her alone and if she comes bothering ignore. Make her invisible.
As you grow older you'll find many people who look nice on the outside are cruel on the inside.
You will become stronger and smarter by working out your strategies to avoid them and to keep your thoughts on your goals and not revolving around them. Think of happy things out of the range of these "kookies" who get a charge who want to be friends so they can keep their friends wondering and hurt
Don't make up reasons why they do this or that or you will be caught in their thinking. Put a joyful thought in its place about something you did or your passion or goal. You just learned a trick. Use it.
2006-11-16 21:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by wilashakespeare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing this chick at school started saying stuff about me and acused me of saying stuff about her but i didnt say a word about her. I did ignore her but it seems that she is always hating so i wrote her an email and asked her what was going on and we talked about. We aint friends anymore but she aint being mean like she used to.
2006-11-16 21:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends wanna listen to a 2-faced backstabber instead of you then theyre not friends anyways & thats their problem. Ask the girl why she has such a problem w/ you. If she has no reason then shes DEFINITELY jealous of you. These girls started hating my sister for no reason & she finally found out that they envied her. If she does have a reason find out if the reason is actually enough of a reason to treat you like this. Good luck.
*Abby*
2006-11-16 21:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u just walk away, don't let her know that it is getting to you! if it goes on for too long then u should let someone know!
oh if u need anymore help read a chicken soup for the girls or teenage soul!!
2006-11-16 21:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kate B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep ignoring her. If she ever does something else besides words them kick her @$$.
2006-11-16 21:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better stay away from that CRAPY freind.....or else you will be in much deeper hole
2006-11-16 21:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by serengeti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w0ow...
2006-11-16 21:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by bäwЄŁ Ļoĕ ® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋