but i love him and after 10 months he has to care to.
2006-11-16 13:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I am sure that after 10 months of not introducing you to his friends, family, or anyone else while banging then going home to his wife/gf he must care bunches.
I would stay with it. It sounds like a relationship that could really go places.
2006-11-16 13:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nice relationship where one has to sneak around, meaning he really doesn't want his wife to find out about u, be careful that he doesn't decide to reconcile with the wife and dump u. if he cared about u, he would be with u, and wouldn't need to sneak around behind his wife's back. beware of karma, what goes around comes around, u might find yourself the one who gets left. u really have a high opinion of yourself , as if u are proud of what u are doing, but what if u were the wife, and there was someone out there sleeping with your husband, wouldn't u be hurt? maybe it will come to u this way one day, so u will know what it feels like to be cheated on and betrayed by the other woman.
2006-11-17 00:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have enough self respect not to get involved with a man who's already taken. he obviously doesn't care about you that much or he would be with you instead of her. you didn't say whether he's married or not, but either way, you're getting used if you're the one he's sneaking around with. pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and tell him it's over and mean it. respect yourself, and this guys girlfriend/wife. you wouldn't want someone doing to you what you're doing to her.
hope you'll make the right decision.
2006-11-16 21:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To sneak is to empower guilt. The thought has occurred to you to step aside. This came from your heart and this needs to be done.
2006-11-16 23:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wrong about that he has to care. As far as he is concerned he has you exactly where he wants you. Going out with a man that is taken is settling for seconds.
2006-11-16 21:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he cares
OK if he does than stop sneaking
he will choose you, but don't think that he will not be sneaking around with someone new
2006-11-16 21:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I take it you are the "other woman" (your post was not too clear).
Drop the guy...anyone who would cheat on his partner, would cheat on you too...don't be foolish and think it would be different with you...
Also...unless you're okay with some woman playing around with your boyfriend/husband, then don't play around with someone else's...what you do, you are okaying to be done to you...
What goes around, comes around...are you prepared for what's coming around from you playing around with a cheater...AND you expect him to care? Sugar, if he cared about anyone but himself, he wouldn't be with one woman and screwing another...
2006-11-16 21:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your OWN man!! god, why is that so hard? if the boy is in a relationship leave him the hell alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if he liked you enough to just be with you in something more meaningful than sex, he'd do it! it's been 10 months, he's USING YOU
2006-11-16 21:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and find your own man...
2006-11-16 21:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋