Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

not internet dating sites but proper avenues to meet other single christians who want to date.

2006-11-14 10:33:14 · 19 answers · asked by valentinebaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 24 year old guy. When I hit 23 I started getting a lot more interested glances. Unfortunately they were all from girls much younger than me. I know 18 is legal, but is it right? I'm tempted but I don't want to be taking advantage of someone with less experience. Ladies your help would be appreciated.

2006-11-14 10:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by charlieyankeekilo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I'm in 9th grade and I like this boy in 10th. We have a lot of fun together and he flirts with me, the only problem is, he has a girlfriend who I'm sorry to say is a total B****. I flirt back being the flirtatous freshman I am and it looks like he likes it. He hugs me when I ask him and says that if I was crying around him he'd "hold me in a hug and ask what was wrong". I have two questions now, Is it bad that Flirt with him even if he has a girlfriend, even if he's flirting too? and Does he like me or is he being a tease?

Another guy I like is a senior and we have fun too. He gave me a ring and added me to our "band family"(it's a marching band thing) and I'm his "wife". He also has a girlfriend who we both finally started being friends after a long fight about him. Hes a total tease and I know he doesnt mean to make me feel like I'm the world to him, but he does and he almost kissed me. Now his girlfriend is pissed cause I told her that he said "i want to piss her off" Is it bad?

2006-11-14 10:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you have a best freind and a freind but when you hang out with one of the freinds they get jeleous but you know that the best freind is your best best freind

2006-11-14 10:31:24 · 11 answers · asked by ixscnnn 1 in Friends

is being albino a deseaase and how do you eal with it..help me im confused because we are going to watch a documentary of that in one of my classes thanx

2006-11-14 10:31:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 22 and my husband is 26, we have been married for 6 years. whne we first got together we both had no money but we were happy. then he finally got a job and began working. then 2 years ago his mother died and i was his rock. he ended losing his job and i got 2 jobs , one as a cleaner and the other working in an office, it didnt bother me he was sitting around the house his mother had died and he was upset. with our money i pad for boys nights outs with him and his friends and bought him presents. last year he finally got a new job and he loved it, it was paying more money and told me his boss loved him. after not being there long he was given a better position in work and was makiing loads of money. since earning more he didint want to knoew me anymore. he would stay out most nights and and one night actually confessed to me he had been cheating. he had been sleeping with his female boss and 2 collegues. i said i was leaving but he didint care. now were getting divorced. but why

2006-11-14 10:30:11 · 21 answers · asked by bobby t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy asked me a hypathatical question if i would go to the movies with him. he always talks to me on im. But then he has a girlfriend and recenly they broke up. Confusing i know but please Help??

2006-11-14 10:30:06 · 14 answers · asked by lilcutiebotie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to get a honest view here. The day before, my boyfriend
told me he was going to take me out. He didn't tell me what time, he just said he was giving me the heads up and he would call me.
That morning, he was knocking on my door and I woke up stunned. He said he had called me but I didn't answer. I didn't hear the phone ring. He was really really mad at me. Is the angier justified. I had my clothes ironed and stuff, I feel so bad, but don't understand why he got so mad. Doesn't everyone make mistakes, he lives thirty minutes away and I was expecting his call to wake me up. I he overreacting, when he came I said "i'll be ready in a few minutes" and I rushed to get ready. Is this something that he is justfied getting very angry with?

2006-11-14 10:29:15 · 23 answers · asked by Muse 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There are some people in my high school who do not like me and I do not know why.I'm thinking that they are jealous of me and they want to say things to bring me down.Well,someone went around the school and told people I was a rolla now most people believe it.I have never done anything wrong to those girls I've never even talked to them before.Today after lunch one of the girls who did'nt like me was talking s*** about me and people started asking her if she wanted to fight me and she said "no".What the hell why in the world would she be talking s*** about me and when people ask her if she wanted to fight she says no that must mean she's scared.Anyway,she about 1-2 inches talller than me and she is a big girl and I am skinny what is she afraid of.I think she may not be happy with her life and she is trying to mess me up.I also think she knows the neighborhood where I live (people can fight) and I am very quiet so she doesn't know what to expect.What should I do?

2006-11-14 10:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by heyeverybody 1 in Friends

Background Info: My bf and I've been together for 2 years. I'm nearly 17, he's 16. We're both good students w/ above 4.0s. I have had 2 bf's before him, one for 6 days, one for 2.5 months. Before me, he's had 2ish gf's, one for a few weeks, one for 5 months.
Anyway, he says passive aggressive comments (more often than he realizes) that suggest I've cheated on him. I never have, never will. Sometimes he says he was joking, other times he'll say it's not a big deal. i know it bothers him a lot though.
I will explain a lot more in my comments.
Basically, I want to know what to do when he says something like "So how are your other lovers?" (with an angry look in his eye). My thought was that I'd "close my legs to him until he could believe i have the power to keep them closed to anybody" He thought this a bad idea (technically, we haven't had sex yet, but we do stuff a lot and have good chemistry). Any ideas on how to build trust? Any thoughts? Guys?

2006-11-14 10:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by Sami 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 10:26:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

30yrs old, Got married 1 month ago, we were together for 7 years before the wedding, we have 2 kids. Beginning of this year she moved out and got her own place, left me with the kids 5-6 days a week. She started dating other people but mainted she was innocent and had not slept with anyone else. We got back together in June and married last month. She was sleeping with my best friend behind my back (no love just sex), neither admitted it till yesterday. She says they ended it before we got back together. I had no clue they lied, very clever. If she had been honest about this, I would not have gotten back together with her and then married. I know why she lied, and I am (was?) happy our family is together, but my ego hurts. Wasn't technically cheating, we were broke up, I don't want a divorce, but I was lied to and betrayed. How do I get over this? I now feel like cheating on her.

2006-11-14 10:26:03 · 18 answers · asked by al bundy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

put yourself in my shoes. youre best friends with this girl. you guys become realllly tight. and then you realize that shes completely opposite of you but you fall for her anywayss. and youre in that stage of about askign her out, but too afraid too kinda stage, and then it happens. she starts going out with this other guy she was best friends with, and youre crushed, devastated. you dnt kno what youll say to her, so you sorta kinda aviod her for a week or two after her hookup with some other guy, but somehow, someway you become tight as hell again, liek you were b4 she started going out. it hurts you everytime theyre together, but oyu dnt do anything cus youre not that kinda person to sabatage their relationship. so what do you do? try to forget her(ive tried trust me, but since were tight as hell again its so hard to stop liking her) or wait it outt and see what happens(i doubt it though, theyve been going out for 3 months now). anyone help me out? really appreciate it

2006-11-14 10:25:49 · 23 answers · asked by some jersey kid 1 in Singles & Dating

He is in India and Im in the uk but his parents would disown him but he says he loves me,what to do??

2006-11-14 10:25:24 · 19 answers · asked by kittenpsychosex 2 in Singles & Dating

i can NOT get this guy off of my mind... he's really nice to my face but a jerk if we talk on yahoo...could it be one of his friends im talking to on yahoo. or him??? what should i do

2006-11-14 10:23:33 · 14 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is a teachers pet and i told her but she wont stop being a goodie good good I still whant her to be my friend but how to make her stop I dont know I need advice

2006-11-14 10:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by dana5736 1 in Friends

This guy likes me but i wanna make him like me more so mabe he will come out and say he likes me to my face just not to my friends. So how do i make him love me???

2006-11-14 10:23:11 · 9 answers · asked by lilcutiebotie 1 in Singles & Dating

what makes you laugh? jokes? teasing?

2006-11-14 10:22:45 · 18 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to know if my husband can drop his lawyer

2006-11-14 10:22:27 · 16 answers · asked by vicentemariajac 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I like this guy more and more everyday. I'm so scared of this feeling. I'm scared I will love him more than he would ever love me. I'm scared he'd end up breaking my heart. I think he likes me but it seems like I dont wanna believe it because if I'm sure he loves me it will make me love him even more. I always tell myself that he hates me or that he wants to dump me. How do I stop the voices in my head? Lol.

2006-11-14 10:22:19 · 9 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 10:20:43 · 12 answers · asked by Alissa C 1 in Singles & Dating

You all know the phrase.... The one that goes something like this.......
It's not that I don't love you, I'm just not "in love" w/ u ! WTH does this mean and do they think this actually makes things better or easier? That is the biggest bunch of crock I've ever heard!!

2006-11-14 10:20:32 · 16 answers · asked by ~B~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

They are saying if I do my child would get money and the state pays for college is that true?

2006-11-14 10:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by lisa c 1 in Family

Im a freshman an I like this other freshman.
Other then that Im not intreasted in any other
for some reason
I like 10th graders an 11th
But i dont understand why

2006-11-14 10:20:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my "ex" best friend got in a really big fight and everything and we weren't talking jut receintly..and now all of a sudden she wants to be my friend...and i dunno what to do...she was mean and we got in trouble all b/c of her friend...i don't want to be mean but i don't think she deserves my friendship/trust back...any advise?

2006-11-14 10:19:55 · 6 answers · asked by just me... 2 in Friends

What do you do when everything is against you? What do you do when you do your best, and your best isn’t good enough? What do you do when you do more than your best, you do everything right and you still get hurt? What do you do when you love someone so much, you care about them so much, and the two of you are so good together that everyone around you knows it, but her parents want to rip you apart because you are of two different races? What do you do with so much pain? I can’t tell her my pain because it hurts her. They hurt her, I can’t do it too. Every tear she sheds is a spear through my heart. What do you do when you fear losing the one person you love so much and care so much about? What do you do when the person you love fears standing up for you? What do you do when the person you will do anything for is so scared that she can’t stand up for the two of you? I sit here in tears in a desolate place reaching out to the internet community, because I have no one left to

2006-11-14 10:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by TheT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Every few months my hubby goes into a major sulk. He doesn't speak to me for sometimes days on end. When he does talk again, he says he doesnt know what was wrong. Over the past few weeks he has got a lot worse. He sleeps constantly, only getting up to eat and go to work, wears the sames clothes for days and is always so grumpy. I asked him if he thought he might be depressed but he said no. I hate living with him like this and think our kids have a right to a happy home. What do I do?

2006-11-14 10:18:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 10:18:48 · 30 answers · asked by love me@hugs 1 in Singles & Dating

woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening the front door. "Hurry!" she said. "Stand in the corner."

She quickly rubbed baby oil all over him and then she dusted him with talcum powder. "Don't move until I tell you to," she whispered. "Just pretend you're a statue."

"What's this, honey?" the husband asked as he entered the room.

"Oh, it's just a statue," she replied nonchalantly. "The Smith's bought one for their bedroom. I liked the idea so much, I got one for us, too."

No more was said about the "statue." Not even later that night when they went to sleep. Around two in the morning, the husband got out of bed, went into the kitchen, and returned with a sandwich and a glass of milk.

"Here," he said to the statue. "Eat this. I stood like an idiot at the Smith's for three days and nobody offered me so much as a glass of water."

2006-11-14 10:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now, I am talking about DATING- not boyfriend/girlfriend status yet. It is possible that the guy I am seeing is seeing other women, just as I am seeing other guys. But HE IS THE ONE I AM VERY INTERESTED IN.

This week/s he waited over one week to 'see' me in person again. My first instinct is this is ridiculous and I am just booty call. My other half is telling me 'we are just taking our time' and easing in to a healthy relationship.

Any thoughts?

2006-11-14 10:18:16 · 10 answers · asked by Sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating