There are some people in my high school who do not like me and I do not know why.I'm thinking that they are jealous of me and they want to say things to bring me down.Well,someone went around the school and told people I was a rolla now most people believe it.I have never done anything wrong to those girls I've never even talked to them before.Today after lunch one of the girls who did'nt like me was talking s*** about me and people started asking her if she wanted to fight me and she said "no".What the hell why in the world would she be talking s*** about me and when people ask her if she wanted to fight she says no that must mean she's scared.Anyway,she about 1-2 inches talller than me and she is a big girl and I am skinny what is she afraid of.I think she may not be happy with her life and she is trying to mess me up.I also think she knows the neighborhood where I live (people can fight) and I am very quiet so she doesn't know what to expect.What should I do?
2006-11-14 10:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by heyeverybody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A rolla is basically a ho.
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2006-11-14 10:48:21 · update #1
wat ever u want
2006-11-14 10:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am skinny too and I was in the same situation but mine was worse don't worry girl it will pass. Maybe not quickly but the situation will pass people said that I had a disease. But I really didn't so all you have to do is tell people that it isn't true if they ask you that didn't halp me and it might not help you either but you surely know that something can't last forever all you have to do is keep your head up high and ignore all of the other people . Girls that are friend can be very cruel. Boys can too. Sometimes friends that are boys are even better than friends that are girls so If I were you i would find another group of friends . If you don't even know these people just kill them with love girl. If they do touch you remember don't hit them back they will lie on you and you could get expelled. Don't say anything to them and everything will be okay. Good luck!
2006-11-14 18:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's a rolla?
just ignore her.. try really hard not to let ANY negative comments or things or people hurt you. concentrate on Positive, Healthy and Happy things.... try to maintain and grow good, strong relationships w/ family, friends, teachers, and peers that are Nice and Good people.. .leave the gossipers alone.
whether they are jealous, bored, or stupid, it doesn't matter, they are always gona cause trouble for someone, may it be u or someone else. just always focus on what u need to Do, like homework, activities, etc, and don't let anyone get u down! :) if u are a good person, time will tell... good luck~
2006-11-14 18:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always pick on the quiet girls because they are the easiest to pick on. Stand up for yourself and try to be more assertive...but not mean. I know its hard because one bad move can ruin your reputation. I used to be picked on too because I was quiet and I've had so many rumors spread about me. Its best just to avoid the remarks, mind your own business and if they mess with you, be assertive. Don't let them push ya around...because eventually, it may get worse. I used to let people push me around and they kept doing it until I finally got tired of it and started getting more assertive. But don't worry, it passes...
2006-11-14 18:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetthing4u09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people these days who try to hurt, to destroy you, you did nothing bad to them, they just hate you without a reason. Now what it ca be? It deppens. It might be jealousy, because you are somthing she'll never be.
And about saying no fight, lol, she is scared maybe, cuz there are a lot of people who show off as strong, in fact they are so weak and scared to death. so dont worry, keep goin ur way, avoid her, dont listen to the **** she talkes about you...remeber..who ever says bad stuff about you without a reason, it means you have something they'll never have...so dont worry too much...just let her go, dont listen...she will se and back off
2006-11-14 18:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are going to be people who dont like you and are going to talk about you.. thats LIFE.. deal with it.. and have you even fought before??? just because you live in a neighborhood thats known for fighting doesnt mean ANYTHING.. and one day that girl will wanna fight, so dont try to start anything... just let it go.. cuz no matter what its gonna happen.. and will someone please tell me what a "ROLLA" is??
2006-11-14 18:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by risab05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a teacher mabe she need help
2006-11-14 18:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by arc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋