What should I do?

Question

So I like this guy more and more everyday. I'm so scared of this feeling. I'm scared I will love him more than he would ever love me. I'm scared he'd end up breaking my heart. I think he likes me but it seems like I dont wanna believe it because if I'm sure he loves me it will make me love him even more. I always tell myself that he hates me or that he wants to dump me. How do I stop the voices in my head? Lol.

We've been dating for a little over 4 months.

Answer 1

how can he dump you if you are not with him? Why do you worry so much, men will come and go for you your entire life and not meet expectations...chances are he will be no different so dont get bent about it...just roll with it.

Answer 2

first and foremost you are not with the dude like an item! second, you are thinking negatively down upon yourself which in term lowers your self esteem which no lady, girl or teen should do! tell yourself that you are happy with what you have and mean it! one day you may have something good and the next it can all be taken away from you, just think about that! third, you are too young for this and all this drama! fourth, why are you making this a bigger deal than it is? okay, so you like a guy but you do not if he will return the same feelings...find out soon and then move on if he does not feel the same way because you are wasting your time with this guy! live a little, learn how to enjoy yourself and stop worrying about guys! worry about yourself because if you do not take care of yourself no one will! learn that loving has its sweet and sour side but you grow thru that...

Answer 3

this is a deeper problem than whether or not ur boyfriend loves u or not.. this is something that has to do with YOU.

u need to gain some confidence girl! :) u have to KNOW that u are the sh**!! u have to know that u are a great person, great girlfriend, and u try ur hardest to do ur best when u love someone. that should be enough, for any man. if this guy, or someone else makes u feel otherwise, u need to stand ur ground and be a Strong Independent Woman. that doesn't mean u don't need a man. it means u are willing to wait for the RIGHT one.

think of it this way: if u try hard to take care of yourself, ur Appearance, ur Mind, and ur Relationships (w/ family, friends, boyfriend)... and u try to be good to him, try to communicate w/ him, try to give ur love to him... then that is all anyone can ask for. if he does the same, AWESOME.... Appreciate each other. but if one of u is Lazy, bored, mean, selfish, etc etc.. anything negative, then u have some work to do.

good luck, and don't let any "voices" tell u other than the Truth: if u are not doing ur job, fine, he has a reason to not love you. but if u are doing ur best, then there is no reason for him to "not love you enough".

Answer 4

basically you are afraid of being rejected and you have experienced a broken relationship, you can't go through another broken heart. So just take it day by day, enjoy the feeling, no expectations.

Answer 5

One can't really help how they feel. As the saying goes:
"Its better to have loved and lost then to not have loved at all."

Answer 6

voices will always be there to confuse you, instead on turning them off, fight them and let them know that they don't control u... i suggest that you let yourself love him as much as you can because if something happens you'll regret that you didn't enjoy the relationship because you were holding back...

Answer 7

ok he probably doesnt 'love you'...but u left out a lot of things,like if your with this guy, or if he knows you well...he might like you

Answer 8

well I Dont Know but u can e-mail me @
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Answer 9

cry and carry on