what would you do if you had two friends but one feels rejected?

Question

you have a best freind and a freind but when you hang out with one of the freinds they get jeleous but you know that the best freind is your best best freind

Answer 1

make plans for all three of you to go to a movie together, and you sit in the middle between your two friends, that way you can talk to them both, you can all three share popcorn and candy and comments on the movie, and by doing something with both of them at the same time, they will start getting to know one another better and hopefully become friends with each other too. and you won't have to feel like you're constantly in the middle of a game of tug-of-war!! and hopefully it will help them with their jealousy issues. it's worth a try. and I really feel for you, they're both putting a lot of pressure on you that you don't deserve.
Good luck With everything

Answer 2

Switching of with each other is NOT a good idea, because ur best freind will feel that theres no more space in ur life for her. like, u know how she always thot taht u were her best freind? like when u pick partners she probably always relys on u to be her partner. but no she'll think taht u'll pick ur other freind. just per urself in her place, would u be a reliable freind? the best way to deal wiht it is to talk to ur best freind about your new one and tell her "u knwo u'll always be my best freind no matter wat, i just dont want to leave the other girl out." and dont talk to this to ur new freind cuz ur not really familiar wiht her so she'll back off.

Answer 3

Well first off, you should NEVER acknowledge to your other friends that you have a best friend-cuz they could really get their feelings hurt when they find out it's not them. It sounds stupid maybe, but it's the truth.
If I were the one who had the best friend and the friend-I'd sit down w/ the friend and apologize and say I was sorry if I hurt their feelings. I would spend time with them at an equal amount I did with the best friend. I wouldn't ignore them and would do my best to show that they were my good friend too.

If you can't show that, then you're out of luck.

Answer 4

Have you ever heard the saying that two is company but three is a crowd? That is just what you get having three of you. That happened to me when I was in high school. I wound up being friends with just one, and the other one fell by the curb. That is just the way it is with three. If you want, you could add another one to even it up.

Answer 5

I felt rejected once too. Just spend more time with her. Have a sleep-over and ignore the other one just for a day(Tell her this plan first. Lol). Then she'll probley realize she's your best best friend.

Answer 6

I've had that happen before. Obviously, you have your head clear, you know who is more important to you. What you need to say to the non-best friend then is that her jealousy is jeapordizing your friendship with her. Tell her that she has no need to be jealous, but that if she really wants to hang out with you, (and you like hanging out with her), she has to let go of her jealousy cause its making you uncomfortable. I did that, and it worked. As long as your friend is mature, she should understand.

Answer 7

Well, why don't u try hangin out all together. And if dat doesn't work just hang w/ them one on one and see what' up and why they get jelous.

Answer 8

Your comfortably with your best friend that is fine,but if you are all together you need everyone attention.

Answer 9

try and hang out with them together or switch off each day

Answer 10

ave you ever heard two's company, threes a crowd. Its true.