ok my "ex" best friend got in a really big fight and everything and we weren't talking jut receintly..and now all of a sudden she wants to be my friend...and i dunno what to do...she was mean and we got in trouble all b/c of her friend...i don't want to be mean but i don't think she deserves my friendship/trust back...any advise?
2006-11-14 10:19:55 · 6 answers · asked by just me... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok it was me and her that got in a fight...
2006-11-14 10:20:54 · update #1
and we are in highschool if that matters...
2006-11-14 10:21:30 · update #2
*Talk to her (In private) and ask her why she wants you to be her friend. Ask her to promise she wont do anything like this again and she should really not take advantage of your friendship. If she does this again, go hang out with your other friends that are nice to you. Then way for the steam between you and your "ex" best friend to cool down..... I dont want you to get hurt so think about my advice before you go to her. Talk to your friends and family and see what they have to say... one more piece of advice
*dont bring your mom or your school into this mess*
*~ in the case that it is both of you, you both need to talk to each other!!! Otherwise that "I wont say sorry till she says sorry" think may develope and you WILL TOTALLY REGRET IT!!! I SWEAR~*
2006-11-14 10:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by CoUnTrY mUsIc FrEaK-a-ZoId 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All friends fight from time to time. It depends what the fight was about if its something you think you can forgive her for then accept her offers to be your friend again. I had a terrible fight with my friend when i was about 14, i am now 22 and we are still best Friends. Sometimes forgiving and forgetting is a good thing
2006-11-14 10:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always important that you give your friends another chance. You may not have them forever, and if and when they leave, or go away forever(hypathetically speaking) You don't want to end on a bad level with her. Just tell her that if she wants to be your friend again, that she has to understand that, you want trust, and a friendship from her as well. Make sure that she knows that you were very upset about whatever happened,.
2006-11-14 10:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by emi_lyf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are right. But if you want to be her "friend" at a distance, then do that instead. If she was mean and got you into trouble, then that is a red flag isn't it. Just pass her by and get another best friend.
2006-11-14 10:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend doesn't get you in trouble , talk to her settle this thing once and for all. If she is really you best friend and deserve your friendship she will not do something to get you into trouble.
2006-11-14 10:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then be hi bye friends i have friends like that
2006-11-14 10:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋