Now, I am talking about DATING- not boyfriend/girlfriend status yet. It is possible that the guy I am seeing is seeing other women, just as I am seeing other guys. But HE IS THE ONE I AM VERY INTERESTED IN.
This week/s he waited over one week to 'see' me in person again. My first instinct is this is ridiculous and I am just booty call. My other half is telling me 'we are just taking our time' and easing in to a healthy relationship.
Any thoughts?
2006-11-14 10:18:16 · 10 answers · asked by Sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depending on distance and time (business) i would say to see each other about 2 times a week and maybe some talking in between then u might get to the bf/ gf status lol Wink!
But a week is cool i mean ur not serious and as long as u don't give it up too soon u won't b a BOOTY CALL (hint hint)
2006-11-14 10:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
careful.. it depends. one time i was dating a guy and he made plans w/ me 6 out of 7 days... of the week! he monopolized my time.. turned out he was dating other girls on that ONE day. so if u have a real reason to be suspicious, by all means. but if u are just putting ur relationship to the standard of what u *think* it should be, u need to be careful. just be as open and honest w/ him as possible, if u'd like to see him more often, let him know. if he does'nt agree, then perhaps u have different needs and wants for urselves and what a relationship means to each of u. good luck.
2006-11-14 10:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, in case you're only relationship, it actual relies upon on once you will locate one yet another and what you're comfortable with. i might anticipate that to fill the void, you communicate each so often, consistent with threat as quickly as the different day or so. as quickly as you initiate talking on a daily basis, seeing one yet another on a daily basis, it gets extra extreme. i might prefer to think of that when you're a pair you notice one yet another on a daily basis, and in case you won't be able to work out one yet another sometime, you communicate for hours or something... yet on the different hand, purely you and your companion can be sure how regularly is often adequate. From my adventure, in simple terms relationship tiers from once or twice a week and peaks at 4 days a week, from now on than which you're able to evaluate a relationship.
2016-10-22 02:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh.. i don't think i should give you my thoughts on this.. LOL
i was friends or "dating" with someone and we saw each other on some weekends. we saw each other for july in two weekends..than august, and than it was 5 weeks until we saw again in sept..than we spent like 5 weekends in a row together..
well we hadn't spent the last couple of weekends together and i was out..and made a comment and he got mad like he had a right to b/c i was at a bar and there was other guys there or something.. i got mad and siad you cna't get mad at rules that weren't laid down.. and so he was like fine.. let's lay 'em down..
well now he's saying he wants to be exlusive "friends with benefits" fine with me..but he has to make an effort to see me, and he hasn't..and i made another effort to see him, and basically got treated like a booty call.. NOT HAPPY.. i don't need to waste a half of tank of gas to get a pice of ***..
it's lmoast as if he doesn't really want me, but doesn't want anyone else to want me type of thing..and that bothers me, b/c i do care about him..and i have given him the chance for me to be exlcusive but not SERIOUS right now..and he blew it off. we were taking our time too, and i can be fine with that..b/c i need time, but i'm also not going to put my life on hold and get ingored and ony called for booty.. sorry..
so again, you have to decide what is right for you. if you like him..give him time.. if you get annoyed with this **** lay stuff out on the table this way you have a right to be upset..
and do not be afriad to go elsewhere and see toerhs..
hang in there.. i'm going on month # 9 of pure and utter confusiong..
2006-11-14 10:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the women I'm dating, I see her less than once a week and it's a good relationship.
2006-11-14 10:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every situation is different. If you're waiting for him to be the one to make the magic happen, get used to waiting around. Try asking him to get together a little more. Once he starts spending more time on you, he'll want to spend more. That's the way this works.
2006-11-14 10:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and I did 3 nights a week in the beginning....does this sound like what he wants? Let him ask for the next date...he can call in between too.
2006-11-14 10:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been together with my bf for 7 months and we see each other only on Thursdays. That's the only free day he really has scheduled for me. I know he's not with anyone else, so he could have a schedule that crazy too.
2006-11-14 10:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taking time. i guarentee it
2006-11-14 10:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he\'s using you ...
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2006-11-14 10:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋