Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

Do you think my neighbors weird? read below....?
She is a 14 year old girl. She buys all her cloths from yard sales, never from stores. She is really cheap. Everything is about money with her. She never lends any of her friends money, not even a quarter! She expects her friends to pay for her and also expects her friends to give her cloths! She has the money too... She has over $1000 in the bank and always is babysitting. She talks behind my back all the time. One time i confronted her and she says she goes with the flow and never sticks up for me! Shes REALLY immature. When we get into fights, she doesnt speak much and usually curls up in a corner and crys. She is really sensitive. I cant have a talk with her ever! A couple minutes later she is fine with everything like nothing happened. She cannot be left alone anywhere like the mall by herself. I cannot avoid her because shes my neighbor. What do you think? Is she a friend?

2006-11-13 06:59:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As an actor, or someone who you just dream about.

2006-11-13 06:59:40 · 14 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Singles & Dating

Today while I was in school somebody told me that my boyfriend is cheating on me with another gurl that goes to my school. The gurl that he is cheating on me with is my ex-best friend. I don't know if he is truly cheating on me I just heard it today. But he told me he was faithful. I am going to try to talk to him later on tonight but should I break up with him or give him another change. Someone please help me.

2006-11-13 06:59:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 06:58:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently lost my mother - she was 53 and Im finding it very hard to cope. I have contacted CRUSE but it seems to old ladies whose husbands have died. I have been to my GP who wanted to refer me to a psychiatrist!? Just wondered if anyone else had been through this and what their thoughts were

Many thanks

2006-11-13 06:57:44 · 28 answers · asked by janeypixie 2 in Family

2006-11-13 06:56:58 · 14 answers · asked by origamix60 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy named Aaron but this other girl does to,named Danisha.He's feelin me and her,so I decided to let them be,they've known each other for quite a while.They have more chemistry.This how the story went she wasn't there for a few days,and he was all over me,then when she came back,he was all over her.What should I do,pleez no games

2006-11-13 06:56:39 · 1 answers · asked by milkyway 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known this man only a few weeks and we have both declared our undying love for each other. Has this happened to anyone else and if so will it work out. You may think I'm crazy but it really is true love.

2006-11-13 06:56:39 · 25 answers · asked by cazzieboo 1 in Singles & Dating

of hearing things like "all men are dogs, all men are retared, men are such assholes" and other such stupid remarks? seems like that's all girls seem to think. especially on this very site. it sounds so stupid.

when will everyone realise that not all men are stupid, not all men are jerks, not all men are bad? they ARE men who are smart, clever, kind, spontaneous, compassionate and really know how to treat a woman. what's your take on this guys?

2006-11-13 06:56:08 · 33 answers · asked by realstyles2 3 in Singles & Dating

It's a really sad story, and I'm sure alot of people will think she's stupid. So my girlfriend has very low self-esteem and has been in a 2 year abusive drug filled relationship. She actually tried to leave last year but was manipulated into going back. Her boyfriend is a crackhead and has her doing it too. He beats her, yells at her, doesn't allow her to do anything. Freaks out about the dumbest things like guys she was with before him...blah blah blah. She is desperate to leave but is terrified to do so. I've offered to let her stay with me, but she won't do it. I know she is terrified but she needs to get out, and I don't know what else I can do. We are planning to move out west in June, but what can we do til then. She says that she's made her bed and now she must lie in it, but I can handle watching my best friend wither away... ADVICE PLEASE......

2006-11-13 06:56:01 · 10 answers · asked by CuteChic 1 in Singles & Dating

im am 41 years old .I have been married for 13 years.He has allways been a little kinky.And i,m allways up for new things,but is this to far?

2006-11-13 06:55:49 · 37 answers · asked by nicname 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I were engaged in June and have started making plans for the wedding. We are a younger couple 18 & 20 but have been together going on 3 years. We set a date TOGETHER and started to make plans. My parents just paid for the hall for the ceremony and reception and I have started paying toward my dress. We have all the colors, guests, attire and food arranged. His family has never been 100% supportive in our relationship or the engagement because we are young. Yesterday he told me that him and his aunt were talking and he decided and she agreed that he was to immature to get married. He says that he DOES NOT want to end the relationship or the engagement just set the date back to some unknown time until he feels he mature enough. My problem is that I want to be understanding but at the same time why ask if your not ready, and why let my family pay for so much already. I have no idea how to tell my parents or anyone else for that matter. Please any advice?

2006-11-13 06:55:37 · 17 answers · asked by Tamra 2 in Weddings

my partner will never say i love you to my face he just says yeah me to why is this?

2006-11-13 06:55:36 · 5 answers · asked by alisondnns 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend who I care about deeply. However, I'm in to alot of freaky S*** & this other girl I met found out my "weakness" & uses it against me. Now, I can't seem to break away from this thing because it like controls me. I need help on how to break from this thing. The problem is, I Luv what this chic can do & I'm trying to deny it but I can't. Suggestions, please.

2006-11-13 06:54:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's assume he's not a married man of course.

2006-11-13 06:54:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ı dont mean sex , ı mean behaving well with mimic and the style of speaking ı know this is a personal thing but what r the key points for this or how r they gotten ?

2006-11-13 06:54:02 · 1 answers · asked by ayhan_gen 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years & i love him dearly & so does he, But we argue so much! almost everyday about stupid un-necessary crap & we make up 5 minutes later! then theres another man that i used to date that treated me GREAT but i messed up by going back to my current boyfriend of 4 years & the one that treated me good got fed up with me not knowing what i wanted and gave up. we still talk once in a while.... and the feelings are still there but the problem is he lives 7 hours away, he comes out here frequently...... but idk if there will ever be anything with him again.... WHAT DO I DO =/

2006-11-13 06:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by thatGIRL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I went looking for engagement rings yesterday and I came across a wedding set I really liked. The center is a colorless diamond (.71 carat) and the rest totals 1.3 carats (with center included). It is a GREAT diamond, because of it's lack of color and certification but the price is $4,700. It seems a bit much. Is this average? I know engagement rings are expensive but I thought it'd be less. Also, is it common to get the wedding set (bridal set) instead of just the engagement ring? And what is the average engagement ring size? 1.3 carat is good, right? I mean they say bigger is better but I find the ring FANTASTIC :)

2006-11-13 06:53:53 · 32 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Weddings

caught my x with girl bout a year ago. that's when we split. he married this girl bout 8 months ago. no communication with him all this time. he was hating me most of this time. now all of a sudden he calls several times a week. joking around and making remarks such as going riding together. told him to take his wife. asked him what makes him think that i would want to go with him. he replies cause i was laughin and smiling. we have kids so i figured its best to get along with him.

2006-11-13 06:53:52 · 22 answers · asked by CF35 1 in Marriage & Divorce

with me he never does do you think he's going through puberty? hes acting up he only agrees with me every once in a while... i think he's going through puberty, do you think so???

2006-11-13 06:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Friends

I have a new b/f and things are goin really well. We have had sex once already and well he's not the biggest in size but he still does it for me in bed. The problem...the last two times when we get into, i notice he is shaking and when i say something he says he's nervous around me. I tell him not to be worried and just enjoy us being together. Problem is I can tell he gets really worked up, but just can't seem to get it up. I have tried bj's of course and that doesnt seem to help.

Guys....what works for you in this situation? This is the first time I have had this happen with a guy, so I am at a loss. I dont want him thinking that he isnt doing it for me, b/c he is.

2006-11-13 06:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 in Singles & Dating

My dad is a total lier and my mom doesn't live with us.have no brothers or sisters and live alone with him.he always tries to hurt me cuz of his own sickness and problems and i cant stand it anymore.im 16.whats your advice for me now?i dont feel so well about my life...loads of problems...

2006-11-13 06:52:47 · 4 answers · asked by The dude 5 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half, he's the most wonderful man I've ever met. The only problem is that I don't trust him. Not because he's cheated or has given me a reason to, but because of my previous relationships. I started seeing my boyfriend straight after leaving a terrible relationship with a guy who cheated on me a number of times and was abusive both physically and mentally. This has affected me more than I thought it would and I feel as though I can't trust any man. My boyfriend has basically had enough now and has threatened to leave me becaue he's sick of trying to convince me he won't hurt me. I just need to know how and if it is possible for me to ever trust him properly? Any success stories? Please help!!

2006-11-13 06:52:42 · 3 answers · asked by Den 2 in Singles & Dating

i got drunk had had protected sex with a guy i met of a drink.he says he wouldn't say no to meetin up again? this was tthe first time we met we had sex! he had condoms on him and does that meen he knew i would sleep wiv him? help

2006-11-13 06:51:11 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i ran into this guy 8 months ago and we really hit it off, i was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends),he listened and undertsood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay, i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did, i aksed him to put his arm around me he did till i slept he was such a gentlaman.things were awkward the next morning whe he left,a mutual freind tol dme he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who still wants me back)i saw him again 2 months after that night and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.I thought of him ever since,i sent him a text a while back and he never replied.6 months later i saw him at a party and when he walked in he saw me and looked away,later in the night we crossed paths and he smile and said"hey whats up"like nothing was there anymore.what happened to me "killing"him?i cant seem to forget about him.

2006-11-13 06:50:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are getting married but he never officailly proposed. He keeps acting really funny and told me not to look in his lock box because he has something I cant have until he gives it to me. I found a ring box and he said T.J. Maxx gave it to him ( he works there ). He told his mom he had to give her something but for her not to say it out loud. Do you think he is aboutt o propose and how soon???

2006-11-13 06:49:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I make friends, in school I only have 2 friends, were I live i have 1. Can I please get some advise on how to make friends

2006-11-13 06:49:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-13 06:49:32 · 6 answers · asked by Edwin T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't quite know what I mean, but it's like they draw their own conclusions from things. Do they ever take on board what you are saying?

2006-11-13 06:49:05 · 52 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been seeing this guy on a casual basis.we only meet up when we are in town on the same nite cause we live in different towns.

ive known this guy for quite a while.i met im through my ex fiance who i was with for 6 years.this guy isnt friends with my ex but knows of our relationship.i didnt end my relationship with my ex for this guy.i ended the relationship 8 months ago.

this guy has been chasing me years.he always pays me compliments.we have met up a few times.we have only kissed.he did want to take "things" further but i wouldnt.he says i always leave him frustrated!he is still in contact with me.

he asked me if i was enjoying the single life.i said yeah.was this a hint at something?

does he like me?is he just after sex?why chase me so long if all he wants is sex?why hasnt he asked me out on a date?

2006-11-13 06:48:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating