I've known this man only a few weeks and we have both declared our undying love for each other. Has this happened to anyone else and if so will it work out. You may think I'm crazy but it really is true love.
2006-11-13 06:56:39 · 25 answers · asked by cazzieboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 45, married but thinking of leaving my husband.
2006-11-16 09:28:48 · update #1
When i first found Yahoo Q&A...I asked a question...that was just one month ago.
And from one answer....I met a lady on a different continent. Since then, we have been inseperable, using IM to text and speak. ON average, 4-5 hrs every day.
And tho' like you, we have never 'actually' met (face to face), we both know we have fallen for each other in a big, big way. We are constantly telling each other of our un~dying love for each other too...it's truly beautiful and magical and I plan to spend the rest of my life with her.
And from that day I first asked that first question, my life has been transformed into one of true love.
So, my advise to you is........go for it. Be wise. And believe it 'is' possible....I know it is!
And if it feels right...it cant be wrong
2006-11-13 07:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels natural but take it slow. Definitely arrange to meet though keep an open mind. The reason things seem to happen faster on the internet is because you both feel more able to communicate freely, alot of the barriers are broken down. Love can be such a beautiful thing whatever the circumstsances in which it occurs. Shame on you people who say ew thats sad. Just do realise that if it's long distance then a compromise will have to be made in order to have a relationship. It's true that he could be anyone but the same goes for a random guy you meet in a pub, you don't know anyone until you let yourself. Life is all about taking chances, making decisions and making the best of every situation.
2006-11-13 07:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by bethanie_25_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know it is true love? while i don't doubt your feelings are sincere it is quite possible that if the two of you actually got together in person you could annoy eachother.
what if he picks his nose and eats his boogers at the table while belching? what if he only bathes once a week? what if he curses out waiters and waitresses at restaurants? the internet dating scene is an artificial environment. while it may be a great place to meet people with similar interests and be a starting point for a long lasting relationship, be cautious. remember that people can be who they want to be on the internet. i could say that i'm a relationship coach and you'd never know if i were or weren't. good luck with your relationship but do remember that the internet world is sometimes prettier and rosier than the real world.
2006-11-13 07:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI there
A lot of people claim that they are truly in love with someone they have met on the internet and in some cases, when they meet, it turns out that they are a perfect match and they end up getting married.
Be careful though, the person may not be the person they say they are. Or they may not have the nice qualities about them that they claim to have. Don't give too much personal information out about yourself just in case it doesn;t turn out the way you hope.
If and when you go and actually meet this person, don't go alone.
Hope this helps
Scott
2006-11-14 07:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by scott.radley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you meet this person face to face, you will never know for definite if your love is real. It's possible to make yourself believe you're in love but until you've met this person, how do you know they're for real?
There are some genuinely nice people out there but there are also some very strange ones. I would err on the side of caution until you've met him and even then, I'd make sure you meet in a public place the first time you meet.
If it's meant to be, you'll know soon enough.
2006-11-13 07:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by kpk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, how old are you? The reason I ask, is that you NEVER really know someone until you've spent actual time in their presence. What if they are a slob or snore or do some gross habit that they aren't willing to admit ??
You're not going to know ANY really important stuff thru online dating only. You may have a good chance at arelationship with him, I'm not saying you don't, but you REALLY need to meet and spend quality time with him to see if it's actually love.
2006-11-13 07:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by izzynindie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not true love. Calling this true love denigrates the meaning of deep, committed, true love. This is a silly infatuation based on very little reality. Declaring your undying love for each other is ridiculous.
2006-11-13 06:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Oh..............
Anyone can rip a photo off a websight or myspace and claim it's them or tell you an apple song they love you this and that when it's bulls--t.
Truth: You don't know who is on the other end the person your
talking to could be a married guy, a con artist, a prisoner talking
to you from his laptop in his 9x9 cell.
Please be very careful.
2006-11-13 07:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by markm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me but this guy was a waste of space continually lied to me and kept on wanting to move in! or me move there! he kept on telling me he loved me at first it freaked me out but after a while i started to fall for him to. but it didn't work out and 3 days after we had a little fight he is engaged and moved to London. but this may not be the same as they only way u will know is to meet him face to face. if you really like him go for it! there is always the risk you'll get hurt but if u don't try you'll never know. i know 2 people who have married people off the internet so it can work
2006-11-13 07:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b careful some1 can seem different on the net to what they r in person
ppl tend to b how they want to b on the net but cant b tht person in real life
u mite only b in love with the person u think he is rather then the actual him
but if it works then best of luck to u
2006-11-13 07:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by lillylou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋