of hearing things like "all men are dogs, all men are retared, men are such assholes" and other such stupid remarks? seems like that's all girls seem to think. especially on this very site. it sounds so stupid.
when will everyone realise that not all men are stupid, not all men are jerks, not all men are bad? they ARE men who are smart, clever, kind, spontaneous, compassionate and really know how to treat a woman. what's your take on this guys?
2006-11-13 06:56:08 · 33 answers · asked by realstyles2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's bullshit..the nice ones are gay? then youmissed the question, and this is exactly the point i'm making. there are nice STRAIGHT men WHO KNOW HOW TO TREAT A LADY.
2006-11-13 07:10:02 · update #1
Yeah, that gets annoying. I'm the type of argumentative a** that will always fire something back to make them realize how stupid of a statement they have just made. Try something like this:
Girl: "All men are assholes"
Guy: "Well I guess that means that all straight women are stupid, because why else would they be with or want to be with an asshole?"
Girl: "We don't want to be with an asshole, we want to be with a nice guy"
Guy: "Well then you have either just admitted that there are nice guys, making your previous statement false, or you have just admitted that you want to be with a guy that you know doesn't exist, which is ridiculous, and only suggests stupidity"
Girl: "You're an asshole"
Guy: "That may be true, but I'm right...and thats all that matters"
Warning: This approach will certainly not get you laid....but it is funny, and it will point out the fact that she is wrong to make such a statement.
2006-11-13 07:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are so very many reasons for this let me mention a few:
1) women are, by nature, relationship oriented whereas guys are, by the same nature, independent. This leaves the impression that men who are designed to defend, provide and protect are course or aggressive. Our society is now female trait oriented. Guys are supposed to be understanding, sensative, respectful. Many women try their best to drum the "manhood" out of their guy and then resent it when they have suceeded. They no longer like the guy that they have created.
2) Guys can laugh at themselves. This has led to guys being the butt of so many jokes, situation comedies, funny movies whereas women are always prortrayed as the noble, intelligent, sophisticated ones. Anyone foolish enough to produce a comedey routine around a goofy woman would soon find himself alone in the comedy club. Women would not find it funny and men wouldn't dare to laugh.
3) Some guys are jerks but then, again, so are some women. The difference? See #2
That's the way I see it!
2006-11-13 07:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My take is that if your smart, clever, kind, spontaneous, compassionate and really know how to treat a woman. your also single!!!!!! Seems as the very thing that gal's at least what i see think they want is those things above yet those guys are too willing to give it to them ands there is not a challenge for them so they are not interested. ( Ladies please don't beat me up ) Yet that is what I see. i have to say I'm a people that comes from the background of treating your lady as a queen and i see way too many of my ex g/f go for the Dogs and get hurt. The guys that are nice are just that just NICE
2006-11-13 07:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by redskymoon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I don't think that about ALL men. From a woman's point, most of us talk about men like that because that is all we have been with. There are great men out there, still looking for him too. Don't think it's all women either, like i said. It's just the ones that have only known the jerks, assholes, retards and cheaters!
2006-11-13 06:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Manna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you!! I'm tired of hearing all my wife's friends saying how stupid men are and what dogs they are!! AND THEY ARE MARRIED!! Look, just cuz they found a few bad eggs doesn't mean the bunch is rotten!! I happen to know many kind and generous, and compassionate guys. They just need to forge ahead until they find the right guy.
2006-11-13 06:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Saul3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a women, but i gotta say something. There are a lot of men who don't treat women with respect and they are full of them selves. Even the smart ones can be full of them selves. All Most men do is hurt the girl in their life, they cheat, lie, and think they can get away with it. I am not saying that girls are perfect but we know how to treat a loved one, well most of us do. I agree with you there are men that now how to treat a women but probably 35% of men do and the other 65% don't.
2006-11-13 07:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girl here. Hey guys not all of us think you are ALL stupid etc... It is just hard to find you good ones out there because you tend to blend into the room and become unnoticeable or just too shy to talk to us. It is sometimes really hard to find the nerve to talk to a pretty girl because a lot of them have the tendicie to think that if your not model material then your not for them but some of us are not like that. If you take into consideration that you will talk to 10 witches to find one nice girl then you'll expect it and won't give up on finding that one out of ten kind of girl but don't just talk to the pretty ones. Sometimes the ones that aren't societies "pretty types" are the prettiest ones of all once you get to know them.
In other words gents don't give up on women because we have a tendencie to go through 10 to get to that one in ten guy but by the time we get to you we are so frustrated with the ten that we had to go through that we tend to expect the same from you. Only time will tell is my theory but sometimes bitterness can make me forget the rule. Be patient and you will find that one in ten girl that deserves the one in ten guy. When that does happen all those others will have been well worth the trouble of going through to get to her!!!!!
2006-11-13 07:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Janet J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I get tired of hearing these things so I have an idea why don't we as men say that women are cats, all women are air heads when it comes to fixing a car, all women hate football, all women can't drive. Then we'll see if one of them asks a question much like yourself.
2006-11-13 06:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by SLASHER3000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a little advice. In order to avoid getting painted with that brush, stay away from the guys that women point to when they call all men 'dogs'.
2006-11-13 06:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by Michael E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's face it-guys and girls are wired differently. I mean emotionaly. Men have a need to "spread around" their seed. it's part of our dna. Women can't get this. The truth is, you can be with one and only one person emotionally, but not sexually. Women need to learn that because men sleep with other women, it doesn't mean we love other women. Basically, men can seperate emotional love from physical need. Women can't.
2006-11-13 07:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋