I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years & i love him dearly & so does he, But we argue so much! almost everyday about stupid un-necessary crap & we make up 5 minutes later! then theres another man that i used to date that treated me GREAT but i messed up by going back to my current boyfriend of 4 years & the one that treated me good got fed up with me not knowing what i wanted and gave up. we still talk once in a while.... and the feelings are still there but the problem is he lives 7 hours away, he comes out here frequently...... but idk if there will ever be anything with him again.... WHAT DO I DO =/
2006-11-13 06:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by thatGIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get married
2006-11-13 07:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by KingMarc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to hear this......but you need to grow up......
You can't say you love your boyfirend dearly then in the next breath say you still have feelings for someone else and wonder if you could still have something with him.....It seems to me that nothing has really changed and he was right to give up.......Until you can make up your mind on what you want, your really just playing around. He probably wanted a real relationship not some highschool dating.....I do wish you luck !!!
2006-11-13 06:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set a time line... figure it out and either be together again or not. if you pick not then learn to let go of the feelings and get back out onto the scene ! (not to sound harsh, just forward)
2006-11-13 06:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Sarah*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he mentioned marriage after four years? If not, I suggest your disagreements are a reason to get out of there.
2006-11-13 06:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend if you are not prepared to be faithful to him. It is not honest to keep him around until somebody better comes along.
2006-11-13 06:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Trial-Lawyer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we can get addicted to the brain chemistry that happens you fight, get upset and then the flood of relief and emotion when you make up.
2006-11-13 06:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by elflocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and stop acting fickle.
2006-11-13 06:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose one and stick with him.
2006-11-13 06:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never recommend cheating.
2006-11-13 06:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-13 06:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋