i got drunk had had protected sex with a guy i met of a drink.he says he wouldn't say no to meetin up again? this was tthe first time we met we had sex! he had condoms on him and does that meen he knew i would sleep wiv him? help
2006-11-13 06:51:11 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alot of guys carry condoms for just incase and I say thumbs up, especially due to all the sexually transmitted diseases there are and pregnancies.
You must be more careful or one day you will either end up pregnant not knowing where the father is (Think of the child) or worse with AIDS/HIV etc.
The guy will only expect unprotected or not sex and so I say find yourself a descent guy and don't give yourself away as though you are worthless. Learn to love and value your body more.
2006-11-13 07:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by www welcome to milton keynes .com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, at least he had condoms. Also, it takes two to tango. Plus using getting drunk as an excuse is lame. You wanted it as much as he did. Stop feeling guilty. Sex is about having fun and protected sex was being responsible.
Most guys have a condom in their wallet just in case. Big whoop.
2006-11-13 06:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Most guys carry condoms. If you're going to a bar to meet people, there's a chance you might go home with someone, and it's easier to be prepared. If he says he wouldn't mind meeting up again, he either liked you regardless of the sex, or thought you were really good. Either is a compliment. :)
2006-11-13 06:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, just a man who hopes he can get lay-ed and is prepared for it ( good for him taking precautions) he doesn't know you from Adam and at least he SAYS he whats to meet again. But Next time don't use getting drunk as an excuse because it ain't one.
2006-11-13 06:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he came prepared. I am guessing that he is very smooth, and the type that knows just what to do and say. It's a good idea to have someone with you that you trust, when you know you will be drinking. Alcohol and smooth talking men can be a tempting combination.
2006-11-13 07:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's prepared. I carry condoms in my purse. Not that I sleep around or anything, but just in case I am with a boyfriend and the moment stricks.
2006-11-13 06:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did not mean he new you would sleep with him but you did,i bet your glad he had protection for both your sakes,next time don't get so drunk you cant control whats happening to you in the futcher
2006-11-13 06:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not stupid though u shouldn't feel sorry for yourself u didnt know what u were getting into at the time or did u???? but most guys do carry condoms so it isnt ur fault
2006-11-13 06:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Filipina Paradise♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was hoping he would score and carries them just in case.
He wouldn't mind meeting up again? In other words he would sleep with you again.....but sounds like he's not the committing type.
2006-11-13 06:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were just human, and humans make mistakes.
Watch how much you drink, or go out with girlfriends who will protect you from "drunk girl rapists."
The guy effectively raped you since you were drunk when he got you, so don't welcome him to do it again.
Good luck, and don't put yourself down, just be more careful next time (and don't share this experience with a guy you like, it won't help and might hurt him!)
2006-11-13 06:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋