ive been seeing this guy on a casual basis.we only meet up when we are in town on the same nite cause we live in different towns.
ive known this guy for quite a while.i met im through my ex fiance who i was with for 6 years.this guy isnt friends with my ex but knows of our relationship.i didnt end my relationship with my ex for this guy.i ended the relationship 8 months ago.
this guy has been chasing me years.he always pays me compliments.we have met up a few times.we have only kissed.he did want to take "things" further but i wouldnt.he says i always leave him frustrated!he is still in contact with me.
he asked me if i was enjoying the single life.i said yeah.was this a hint at something?
does he like me?is he just after sex?why chase me so long if all he wants is sex?why hasnt he asked me out on a date?
2006-11-13 06:48:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy is 29
2006-11-13 06:52:29 · update #1
is he just giving me space and playing things cool cause of my previous relationship?
2006-11-13 06:53:47 · update #2
Who knows what this guy is thinking.
Just go out with him and see what happens.
2006-11-13 06:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about him? If you like him why don't you ask him how he feels about you?
If he likes you and doesn't know how to tell you or is being considerate of your recent break up, then it will open up the topic. And if you can talk properly about relationship stuff right from the beginning then that has to be a good sign for the future.
If he doesn't like you that much or is just out for sex, the chances are you'll be able to tell by his response.
Nothing ventured; nothing gained.
Good luck. X
2006-11-13 14:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOU TRUSTING HIM.if you really know him then you'd know if he was a mad aboout sex and girls guy or a lovey dovey romantic. if he's a bit of both it could be hard you have to decide if you wouold like a long term relationship with him or if you'd like a bit of a fumble first then see if it was just sex, if it is just sex then he wouldnt try to caontact you after sex or he might call you on occasion looking for 'just sex' again.if he's not just after sex he'll notjust walk out str8 after he'll suggest you meet for luinch or he bring you for dinner. but most important thing is if you feel a deep, loving feeling and you think your sharing these thoughts with him then you should ask him if one day you and him could become one and start a life together if he laughs then he just wants to be friends.if he goes silent then he's considering it.
if he looks at you and say.'yes ofcourse' then he's all yours and he has been holding the thought!
you say he's been like chasing you for so long, this tels me that he is interested i you if he wanted sex there are plenty of othe women.
however if your younger say like 5 years or more younger then it could be a bout sex. its all in your heart love chose what you want. obviously you think about him!!
2006-11-13 15:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by *BABALICIOUS* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chasing you for sex is easy- all he has to do is call and give you compliments, then leave town when he's done. Hints don't mean anything.
He's just not that into you if he hasn't taken you on a date.
2006-11-13 14:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have sex with him n then ask him out then he m8 like u more lol .!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 14:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by froggerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋