I don't quite know what I mean, but it's like they draw their own conclusions from things. Do they ever take on board what you are saying?
2006-11-13 06:49:05 · 52 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What point? Was there a point? What was it about?
2006-11-13 06:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its a self-for-filling prophecy. Women expect men to miss the point so even if we get the point you think we didn't. This in turn makes men not care to get the point since it doesn't seem to matter if we get it or not.
Example:
If a woman starts an argument with the words "I feel". This clear is an emotional argument and not logical so anything else she says should not matter because it is only a feeling and not necessary the truth and only reflective on what she feels which is outside the realm of anything anyone can do about it.
2006-11-13 07:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's resolving the issue contained in the way he feels is simplest. i'm getting that you want him to renowned that you both spend funds both, that he too is at fault for the costs. simplest thanks to make issues honest is to placed all the money into one pot and spend from that, issue solved. He is commonly used with your position, he's purely not supplying you with the words that you want, purely the answer. go away it on my own, those are the arguments that are not well worth a even as and potential. If the issue is fastened (which it now might want to be) then you purely say 'solid sufficient' and flow on. placed some in low-priced prices and use something else for extravagances like toys, weekly/month-to-month dates and/or kinfolk vacation trips.
2016-11-29 02:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer One. I am not sure they miss the point so much as avoid the point.
Answer Two. They are male and do not thing the way we think. Basically, they are clueless about women's feelings. Not all males are like this, but the ones who only enjoy men things and spend more time with men are the types that have no respect for women in My opinion, Just my opinion through experience.
2006-11-13 06:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by makeitright 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
a lot of the time girls are misleading when they say things....i do not mean this from a man stereotypical view. it is true we are not good at all at picking up girls hints. So if you mean that missing the point then that's why..if you mean when we do things for girls or miss doing things it is because we think we are doing something good and right...so if a guy does something for you and its not what you wanted still show him you are impressed because it will shape him in to doing the right things eventually
2006-11-13 06:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats because when women think they are making a point 9 times out of 10 they go around the houses to get straight to the point thus either confusing us guys or making the fatl mistake of trying to make a point about something we have no interest in or while the soccer is on!!!
2006-11-13 16:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by john s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because MOST women speak in codes. If you would say exactly what you meant without us needing someone to translate it for us everything would run smoothly. But we are supposed to "read between the lines" and figure out what you mean instead. JUST MAKE THE POINT AND DON"T DANCE AROUND IT !!!!!!
2006-11-13 06:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by gozedown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men try to understand what you are trying to say but always get the wrong end of the stick. men think in a different way and the things you think important are different than ours so that's why men miss the point.....what was the Question?
2006-11-13 09:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you say things in a way that has to be guessed? If you say what you mean then you should not have a problem.But if you are beating around the bush how do you expect someone to always understand you?
2006-11-13 06:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if YOU don't quite know what you mean, then how are WE supposed to know what you're on about?
if you were as vague to the men that you are referring to as you are in asking this question, then well of course were gonna miss the f*cking point!
if you want men to get the point then try making some f*cking sense woman!
2006-11-13 07:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by PurpleLegion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women take forever to get to the point and many times they just want to emotionally vent and don't want answers. Men hear problem and then try to supply answers and often women just want commiseration. This confuses men so they then start to tune out feeling that they just can't win.
2006-11-13 07:02:27 · answer #11 · answered by jstokes1085 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋