Today while I was in school somebody told me that my boyfriend is cheating on me with another gurl that goes to my school. The gurl that he is cheating on me with is my ex-best friend. I don't know if he is truly cheating on me I just heard it today. But he told me he was faithful. I am going to try to talk to him later on tonight but should I break up with him or give him another change. Someone please help me.
2006-11-13 06:59:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you find that he did cheat on you, break up. If he does it once, and you let him get away with it, he'll do it again. It's not worth all that work for someone who isn't dedicated compleatly to you.
2006-11-13 07:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by S L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..i have been in the same situation with my fiancee and one of my best friends.I heard he screwed her and i refused to believe it until i found out the truth from him and/or her. I asked her first and she denied it but she was known to lie so i kept on.When i saw my boyfriend i calmly said you do know there is a rumor going around about you right....he said he knew and assured me it wasnt true.WRONG later on in my next class my friend told me that yes she had screwed him.I was so upset.I didn't want to be her friend anymore and I broke up with my boyfriend but i loved him and i knew what he had done was a mistake.Out of the goodness of my heart I forgave him and her 3 or 4 days later.I can't trust her alone with him anymore and i am building up trust with him again.That happened a year ago and im ok.Sweetheart if he is cheating do what you think is right...think it ok baby girl it will be ok. My boyfriend is a new person now...he is totally committed to me and he is faithful.Its your choice but remember get the facts first.
2006-11-13 15:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by hottie4u_35776 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here is how it is I know this one in every way possible, If he is cheating then yes it's with your ex best Friend, and he has probably tried to stop it multiple times but she wont let him, she keeps coming back...... the only reson i know this one is because that is something that happened with me and my ex best friend (I was the other girl) this does'nt mean he is but if he is that is a prity good idea of what is going on
2006-11-13 15:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever accuse someone based on rumor! Make sure you have all the facts before you even have a conversation with him... Has he ever given you reason to doubt him? Sounds to me like someone is just trying to cause trouble for you....Don't do or say anything you may regret later!!
2006-11-13 15:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your b/f ever given you a reason to think he's cheating? You may just be listening to vicious gossip. However, if you don't trust him why are you going with him?
2006-11-13 15:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun u are still in school..i would dump him and go for someone else..and trust me you don't ever but anything past Ex bestfriends they will do anything to hurt you..i owuld leave him and find someone else...
2006-11-13 15:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by Newfie_Girl_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the same thing happenes to me and it was this girl that didnt like me making up things, you gotta talk to him before you break up tell him what they told you and go up to teh girl and tell that u know that he told you and see how she reacts
2006-11-13 15:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the facts first before jumping to the wrong conclusion
2006-11-13 15:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him
he will be grateful
2006-11-13 15:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋