Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

should i become an emo boy?
i moved here from el salvador a year ago. i left my family, friends (even though i didnt have many), and my girlfriend. this made me depressed and mad for the whole year.. this year im trying to talk to people more but i still feel sad and depressed, i even cut my wrist sometimes... and i told my friends in el salvador that i was emo... they hate me now which makes me even more depressed.. should i still be emo and tell my friends here that i am, or keep on trying to make friends here even though theres no much use in it?..

2006-11-10 09:19:35 · 9 answers · asked by down.to.your.knees 1 in Friends

my best friend is sooo amoshinal she really pissing me off! even my another friends say she is weird !so the story is really stupid because im friends with this girl and she really funny like ma another friend and i spent more time with her then my bestfriend!!! because she more better then ma bestfriend!so i dont care if she get mad again because when she does after school she talks to me! so wat the point ! u know?? when she get mad she smash book on the table and being stupid! i dont really care and yeaturday she got mad at me because i spent more time with ma another friend then her! and she started crying about it ! omg... she started talking 2 me that she is pissed off at me but i didnt care so i said dont speak to me because u dont have reson why u mad at me like always ! so yea.. if u read this tell me what should i do! because she pissing me off everytime she doing baby things!

2006-11-10 09:19:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

quite a few people have told me i looked like adam lazzara and i have no idea who this is! who have u been said to look like

2006-11-10 09:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by David 1 in Singles & Dating

I know anyone can be friends, or maybe even best friends for a while; however, when it comes to two indivduals from different races, in my experiences anyway, it seems as though the friendship doesn't last that long. If that friendship does last maybe more than 3-5 years, then it's usally because they're not really that great of friends; maybe just really good acquaintances. I have this notion that the reason why it may not work out is just because there is too much of a "culture clash." There are too many differences in how things are done, said, or how a situation is approached.
Also, I know there are those friendships that are going to be an exception to this. But, how often does it honestly happen that two races come together to form a bond that lasts forever? In general, I've noticed that people are closest with their own race and have friends from other races "on the side." I hope you can understand what I'm talking about, and sorry for any confusion. Thanx everyone!!! ;-)

2006-11-10 09:17:32 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if a couple have had sex numerous times before marriage and then the woman decides that the relationship should be based on love and not sex, is it fair then to the man for her not to give anything more than a duty screw. if you think its fair why, if u think its not fair why. please honest answers and nothing vulgar. also this is a mature couple no kids, no job problems of any sort

2006-11-10 09:17:30 · 17 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am so broken hearted i look like axl rose i need some love

2006-11-10 09:16:16 · 19 answers · asked by r@ckst@r 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend wont stop singing "Ultimate Showdown of Ultimate Destiny",It is soo annoying!! any Ideas of how i can get him to stop?????? plz!!!help (i can use force if nessisary!!!

2006-11-10 09:15:52 · 15 answers · asked by :-P 2 in Friends

If he treated you really badly, and you were the nice type who only thought of things to do, but never did anything.... you'd like to know the answer to that question...
a) What would YOU do to your ex? (if you're taking revenge)
b) What would you LIKE to do to your ex? (your fantasies of revenge here)
Thanks!

2006-11-10 09:15:49 · 17 answers · asked by Chocolate_swirls18 2 in Singles & Dating

i wrote her a letter saying i like her and been thanking of her a lot and i would like to get to know her better . i gave it to her wensday. ill see her agien mabye sun. or next wensday what do you thak she will say she talks to me a while when she sees me and tells me stuff she did at school what do you thank

2006-11-10 09:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by tecate 44 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 09:14:57 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley R 1 in Singles & Dating

Not sure what to do , my husband passed away recently after a 2 year battle with cancer.Leaving behind myself and our two minor children.
In his obituary I had asked for money in lieu of flowers to help with financial costs.
His parents have received money from relatives.
They carried no financial burden for him.
Should the money come to me and the children?
Some people insist it should and I just don't know.

Thank you
Deb

2006-11-10 09:14:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so I've been with my guy for bout a year and a half. We've had our ups and def have had our downs. This past summer we were broken up due to the fact that there were some rumours going around that he was unfaithful. There was no evidence so though it hurt me like crazy, I took him back. So ever since part of me feels that he hasn't but then theres the other that feels that he has.

Now the real problem. I met this guy about a month or two ago and we've been chatting quite a bit on the side for sometime. It started out as just being associates since we know all the same people but slowly we are starting to like each other. I feel TERRIBLE being as to I'm in a relationship and I tried to stop talking to this other guy but I just cant. I love the guy I'm with but I cant help what I am feeling towards this other guy.

2006-11-10 09:14:07 · 23 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-10 09:14:02 · 13 answers · asked by supdawg 2 in Singles & Dating

My mum and dad have been together for 20 years now and they always have problem in the relationship. My mum is 38 and my dad is 49 and we are 4 children in the family one 7, 13,17,4 months baby. The problem is my dad has been drinking for 13 years now and were we are living now my mum and dad has a double bed and everytime wehn my dad is drunk, he will piss on the new bed they brouth, he has done it many times. My dad also never respect my dad he has nevere broth something for my mum when he also not he will just buy something for £1 pants or perfume. One day i have ask my dad why he is drinking he say becouse my mum dont wan to sleep with him I think that makes no sense, My mum say she dont have any feeling for sex anymore i dont know why. This problem has been for many year now , I done know what to do about it, thye fight everytime and no respect for each other i got a brother he is 13 he also done respect my mum I done know what to do please help me.

2006-11-10 09:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by Ram1989 2 in Family

2006-11-10 09:13:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Basicaly this girl I sit next to in my 3rd , knows I like her and i think she likes me , but she keep on playing games. Her brithdays in the same month of the same year as mine. Now normally I would leave some one like that alone, but she seems to be coming on to me.

NOTE: She sent me this werid email where she tries to diss me and it back fires and makes her sound insanely lonly.

And this is the girl Ive been asking all my other questions about...

2006-11-10 09:13:08 · 6 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

well, i've had the hugest crush on my best guy friend for about a year now. i met him before he had a girlfriend, and i fell for him really bad...
He seems to be really happy with her, but it hurts so much to see them together and i want to be with him so bad....am i a bad person for feeling like this? i really want to know because i'm so confused. =)

2006-11-10 09:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

We're under social services and the kids are on child protection list they say for emotional abuse so if I left I couldn't take my daughter with me until they have done an assessment on me and her which I've already asked them to do but haven't heard anything yet. I do most of the housework when she's either asleep or at playgroup. I do all the washing as partner don't know how to work it. Only get to do computer after she's in bed at 7.30pm and then sometimes don't get to go on it until eldest son decides to come off it at about 10pm

2006-11-10 09:11:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was best friends with this kid last year, and like everything was cool. But then this year, all he does is trash me, and I can't even get in a word in without him calling me gay or say STFU or something. And I was wondering, is he really worth it? He is really two faced, like he'll be my friend one second, then when another kid is around to see how "funny" he is, he will just completely change and become a total idiot. Like, I was his best friend last year. But also, if I want people to know how much of a jerk he is now, how can I defeat him with class, or in other words, how do I let people know about him without stooping to his level and just trashing him and calling him gay or something. I just want him to realize that his jokes on Facebook and things about him "owning" me aren't even funny, and that he's ruining his reputation and is just a complete jerk.
Thanks!

2006-11-10 09:11:40 · 3 answers · asked by Halo 2 in Friends

recently after going out with a few mates they seem to have got it into there heads that i fancie this boy, i dont. they are telling everyone een though its not true and i no it seems stupid but i dont like them doing it!! ive tried telling them but they dont listen, help please, i get really embarrased around every1 i no if they have heard this roomer and i hate it

2006-11-10 09:11:21 · 21 answers · asked by x_luv_u_lots!!_x 1 in Friends

Have you accidentally farted on the first date? Did they guy find out? Was there a second date? How did you handle the situation?

2006-11-10 09:10:56 · 17 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

i am sooo confused
he looks at me alot but every time i try to talk to him he never makes eye contact with me or says anything back
does he not want to have anything to do with me or what
i so don't get it

2006-11-10 09:09:39 · 15 answers · asked by ohsnapitsambii 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok i am going out with a boy but i dont like him i am only going out with him because he really likes me and he is going to move. But i broke up with my other boyfriend but i still like him. We broke up because we had problems. what should i do cause i still like my ex. Also should i dump my boyfriend that i dont like.

2006-11-10 09:08:29 · 29 answers · asked by -ruby_*! 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my guy friend and i are having thanksgiving dinner together with some of our other friends. I have decided to be more explicit of my feelings towards him once we see each other. Can you please give me some tips on how to flirt/make him realize that i like him? example, put food on his plate, sit beside him? more great tips please.... thanks!!!

2006-11-10 09:08:23 · 9 answers · asked by lovingyouforever 1 in Friends

I have an 8 wks class in square dancing. I've been to only one class in 3 weeks, 2 weeks of that I had a doctor's excuse from a horrible illness.

I talked to the instructor beforehand and asked if I should just drop the course, she said "oh no, just work hard to catch up.. you don't have to drop it".

After class a guy went to talk to her as I was leaving class and he had told her he had the flu. She said "I'm sorry, but you'll have to drop the class. You've only been here once and there is no way to catch up".

What do you think of this? I thought about talking to her superiors but I might risk getting myself in trouble, and I really need the class to keep my financial aide.

2006-11-10 09:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I am a guy 25 years old. and I never seem to fall in love with any woman. All I want, it seems is sex.
I had only 2 sexual encounters so far though.
What is my problem?
I mean I get interested in a girl and suddenly I lose interested. I am always into sex, but I am not the kind of person that takes advantage of people?
what shall I do?

P.S. I AM STRAIGHT.

2006-11-10 09:06:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 09:05:59 · 2 answers · asked by andykpln 4 in Family

I know that when my husband doesn't put the toilet seat down...I go crazy inside. What are some things that drive you crazy about the opposite sex? I'd like to hear from men and women.

2006-11-10 09:05:12 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs_Rivera2U 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need a list of places to get married in, and its ok if they are expensive, money isnt an issue.

2006-11-10 09:04:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been hanging out with this girl for like 2 weeks now (she's in one of my classes) and everytime we hang out her boyfriend calls...and because we hung so much he now wants to meet me! The 3 of us are going to dinner tonight...is this weird? I think it's a little weird that he wants to meet me this early on because I kind of just starting hanging out with her (she's like my best friend now though!)...but I think he's just trying to be nice...what do you guys think?

2006-11-10 09:04:13 · 19 answers · asked by Yanks4Life23519 7 in Friends