If he treated you really badly, and you were the nice type who only thought of things to do, but never did anything.... you'd like to know the answer to that question...
a) What would YOU do to your ex? (if you're taking revenge)
b) What would you LIKE to do to your ex? (your fantasies of revenge here)
Thanks!
2006-11-10 09:15:49 · 17 answers · asked by Chocolate_swirls18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I'm sorry... this is actually just a survey... and I'm sorry if I offended people or made you think I was actually going to follow any of the suggestions... I just wanted everyone to have fun... maybe it was too much to ask...
2006-11-10 09:20:30 · update #1
Hi Chocolate_swirls18,
You really aren't going to like this answer, Chocolate_swirls18. I've always said that, "The best revenge is to be happier without them." Find yourself a nice guy who will appreciate you more, and have fun and enjoy being with him. Be happy. That's the best way to get back at him is just to enjoy life without him.
Some girls get some kind of kinky pleasure off trying to get back at their X-boyfriends. Here's a big secret. Guys have a great laugh at that kind of childish behavior. They think that these girls are going through all of these gyrations because they still love them. Their trying to get even, always falls flat, and guys just get a big chuckle over you playing the fool. Don't do it.
Instead, get out and be seen by other guys. Meet up, flirt, and find some other guy who is a little more fun than this X. Finding a good guy is better than dwelling on the past and some bozo who treated you badly in the first place. Good luck, and have fun.
--Rick
2006-11-10 09:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1
2016-05-06 03:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone said that the best revenge is to live well
be happy with yourself, look fabulous, move on, find someone new and that will be the best revenge
the more you obsess about the other person, the more unhappy you will be.
I recently read that when asked why he never talked about his experiences during WWII, a holocaust survivor responded that the Nazis had taken everything from him at the time, but after the war he would not give them the satisfaction of taking even one more minute from him. Think about that statement when you start dwelling on your ex!
2006-11-10 09:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by YW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best revenge is to find happiness elsewhere.
A)Doing something TO a person to get back could get you in trouble with the law, but it also will be something that will weigh on your mind as you live your life. You will NOT be proud of it. Do only what will make you proud.
B) Same as above. I always wanted to be extremely successful in marriage and finances just to show my ex that I could succeed quite well without him in my life.
2006-11-10 09:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i be attentive to the guy in a undertaking like this. We call him an *** for doing it all of the time on account that he thoroughly dropped all touch together with her (nevertheless she did harass him for weeks over textual content cloth till he replaced his quantity). do no longer slump to the guy's point. heavily. merely wait till the baby's born and get a courtroom ordered DNA try. And get new child help. it extremely is the ultimate revenge. Eighteen years of paying.
2016-12-14 05:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by karsten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best (and mature way to get) revenge is to go on with your life and find happiness.
Taking revenge only reaffirms that you are still emotionally attached.
2006-11-10 09:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sweetest revenge is letting him see you with another man, and you have to be happy with the new guy. Or, talk to someone who knows him, because they will end up talking about it. Meaner things- burn his stuff, key his car, get 5 pit bulls to chase him lol. Tie him to a train track, and the list goes on!
2006-11-10 09:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is forget them ..and continue as if nothing has happened ....they would not expect that
2006-11-10 09:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by pineforestkim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sleep with his or her best friend and send the ex a recorded audio tape of the two of you doing it.
2006-11-10 09:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Win the $100million dollar lotto.
2006-11-10 09:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋