Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

2006-11-10 09:35:11 · 4 answers · asked by jaijay34 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They were just friends, then she hardly knew him....of course, she clams up totally and blames me when I ask anything. The emails I saw accidentally were very odd for someone that barely knows each other...Like "r u ok" and, conflict of interest :)~ amoung many others....your thoughts????

2006-11-10 09:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by idwill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have you met someone on answers and just hit it off?
how did you start chatting?
would or have you met them?

tell all!!

2006-11-10 09:33:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to say I love and to hear it said to me; is it too weird?

2006-11-10 09:32:54 · 12 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

When I want to have sex really badly what should I do to make myself stop? I don't believe in having sex before marraige and I'm not married so I don't plan on having sex for some time. What should I do to lesson or stop me wanting to have sex so badly?

2006-11-10 09:32:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is from a different culture....I lived with him and his sister for a year and a half before we got our own place.....I worked full-time, cooked all the meals, did all the cleaning.

I understand this was a huge change for his sister.....But, the thing is,,,,,he talked me into letting her work in the same bank as me. I was the manager. Anyway, I had to leave my job becasue of her manipulative ways. He told me I had to put up with her because she was part of my family.

Then, she and my other sister-in-law teamed up on me.....They called me whore, ****, etc. I know they may have been jealous, but I have never had to deal with this sort of behavior.

His sister has done some nice things for me, but we did nice things for each other. I have to tolerate her being with us almost 24/7. She tries to give her opinion on raising my children, etc. She calls our house at all hours of the night.

The other sister-in-law is coming back into town soon. How should I act?

2006-11-10 09:31:50 · 13 answers · asked by Kimberly R. 2 in Family

okay, first off, she has a girlfriend but her girlfriend lives in a different state. She thinks that I don't know about her girlfriend. For the past three weeks she's been flirting with me a lot. Like touching me and stuff. Things she shouldn't be doing if she has a girlfriend. Now, I don't think she knows that I like her, but I do, a lot. I'm not sure if she likes me or not, but I'm guessing she does if she keeps flirting so much. I'm not sure what to do. Should I mention to her that I like her or ask her if she likes me? Should I let her know that I know about her girlfriend, or do I continue playing dumb? Why is she flirting with me so much if she has a girlfriend?

2006-11-10 09:31:32 · 9 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 09:30:39 · 51 answers · asked by missamerican_pie007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well...we both know what to do and now we both are playing games with each other:D...
first i flirt .then he thought he is an angle !then i i gnored him ,then he tryed to flirt like a friend( he gave me some gum or some juices at work).now i want him to really flirt with me and end this game:D
i know he is into me too!!

2006-11-10 09:30:38 · 8 answers · asked by karen 2 in Singles & Dating

did he make me and my ex get in a fight after not seeing each other for 2 years. did he make me talk to his ex

2006-11-10 09:30:31 · 16 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend no longer has a job and I only make 7.50 at my job, should I support him?

2006-11-10 09:29:39 · 12 answers · asked by jutter07 1 in Singles & Dating

got involved with a marriaged man for 2 years. he promised to work it out and tell his wife when the time is right. and then a year passed by he said his motherinlaw is dying he cannot leave. and then half a year later his daughter is going to take an important test and he cannot leave and now he just cannot leave and left me. i feel absolutely fooled and also because this is his 3 third affair. and he is more then 10 years older than me, supposedly more experienced. i just feel furious and am planning to revenge. my body suffers a lot and i am ill all the time during these two years too, which makes me even more furious and revengeful. but people keep telllming to just forgive. i simmple cannot.
could people who were once unfortunately in similar situation advice? i don't want to hurt innocent people but he is hurting them again and again and i just cannot forgive him like nothing has happened. he needs to be punished!

2006-11-10 09:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by noodles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is that?

2006-11-10 09:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by poetic_lala 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do if i really love this person but they dont love me back and i like really ....................................ok i cant even put it into words

2006-11-10 09:27:54 · 12 answers · asked by angie 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't think I was active at the time. I had been taking vitamins and sport drinks, but I don't check all the time. If something was wrong, is she was concerned she should have checked.. Its not my fault she is reckless.

She is much younger and my friends say the young girls aren't careful. I'm in good health and feel fine. I'm not even taking the pills anymore.

Somehow her gums are infected. I told her to gargle.

She can't prove she caught it from me. Should I just dump her?

2006-11-10 09:27:47 · 12 answers · asked by Ratzo 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I asked him if we could go to the movies tonight because we always do a group movie night once a month. He said he probably would. But just because I touched another boy's hair, he won't go!!! He said it "annoyed" the other boy, who is his friend, but it really didn't! The other dude liked me touching his hair... WHY the heck is he sooooo annoyed??? HE'S being SOOOO immature if he won't go with me just because I touched another guy's hair! What do I do? He's a jerk... and he's kicking me when I come near him! Why the heck? I keep asking him if he would still come, he kicks me and tells me, "you've gone too far with Aaron." (the guy who i keep touching his hair is aaron) WHY IS HE DOING THIS?

2006-11-10 09:27:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy online about random stuff. I can tell shes really interested. What should I do? Should I support her or not?

P.S. this guy doesn't live in our area.

2006-11-10 09:26:36 · 7 answers · asked by biggest Johnny Depp fan ever 2 in Friends

As an agreement we try not to snoop in each other's stuff. But I opened up our downloading program to download some music and discovered quite a collection of porn he has been downloading. I know he looks at porn occasionally even though he thinks I don't. It bothered me a little but I didn't know how to say anything to him. It doesn't make me mad so much as hurts. To me it's like a slap in the face saying I'm bad in bed or he doesn't find me attractive. I don't want to dictate how to live his life or spend his free time but this discovery bothered me a whole lot more than I thought it would. I know I'm gonna get crap answers here, but I'm looking for non-critical honest answers on how best to bring this up to my husband. I don't believe he's gonna cheat on me, and I do admit my lack of experience in the bedroom (I was a virgin until him...he was definitely not a virgin and I knew that). How do I talk to him about this without sounding accusatory?

2006-11-10 09:26:23 · 16 answers · asked by bubb1e_gir1 5 in Marriage & Divorce

if you sister did not ask you to be in her lineup? but she asked the other sister?

2006-11-10 09:26:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'm not happy and i aint been in months im lonely and no one feels like they can help me.
i wish i knew wot wud help
i feel like ther is sumfin missin in my life like a hole in my heart i guess.

2006-11-10 09:25:12 · 22 answers · asked by SecondhandTink. 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay guys!! If you are in school, or were, does it bother you when ur gf give you fairly through notes in the hall. Not necessarily LONG, but.
Well, my 1st bf HATED it, and now, my 2nd, says he doesen't mind, but so did my 1st.

2006-11-10 09:24:55 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

When you have sex does the guy ever pee in the girl's vagina? I'm really nervous about that. When I have sex for the first time I know that I'm going to be very nervous.And when I am nervous I usualy pee my pants. And so I'm wondering if I'd be able to pee in her (its very gross I know) or if my you know what will tighten up and not let me?

2006-11-10 09:24:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 09:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by Feathery 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and he has been acting very distant towards me and I'm nagging him to let me know what is wrong--well it turns out he feels like I am smothering him, blah blah blah-he is constantly biting my head off and being inconsiderate-he can't even find time to say hello or smile at me when I get home from working all day.. should I just back off or tell him I'm through. I feel like if we don't try to work it out then it will just go down the drain but when I try to talk to him about it he just gets pissed

2006-11-10 09:23:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends seems to ask me so many questions, like what i did at school or what ive been up to but when i answer he just stares at me! he doesnt seem to pay attention to what im actually ona bout but just looks at me its kinda funny but i dont get why he does it anyway? can anyone actually explain the weird things gys do?

x...X...x14 yr old gurl UKx...X...x

2006-11-10 09:23:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok well im 11 years old as well as my friend (Madison) Ever since i moved and ive been telling her on im how much i miss her she keeps on asking Who are your bff's there? And finnaly i responded Kristen and Tori they should be at my house preety soon. O really what are u guys going to do? she responded. Sleepover! lol i said. Then she got really mad and suddenly saying ur a butt loser i hate u and she even sent me this rotten email saying Go to ur a ....
b*itch/slu*t.com Shut up and I hate u! -Maidson. She has really hurt my feelings and know ive been replying back saying i never want to talk to her again. AM i right? Or taking this waaaaaaaaay to far? Be honest whos the dumbest at this point.





10min... IM SO FRUSTRATED HELP!

2006-11-10 09:21:29 · 7 answers · asked by *StarFashion* 2 in Friends

okay so how many guys would talk to a girl and say they should hang out the next day but never get on im, i am mad about his because i dont know if he had other plans or forgot or just blew me off please help!

2006-11-10 09:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by Loveable23 2 in Singles & Dating

i get nervous around him and quiet what can i do to not be quiet around him. i don't want to lose him. he asks me why i don't talk around him much. Can sumbody just help me PLZ?

2006-11-10 09:20:54 · 26 answers · asked by Lil CC 1 in Singles & Dating

rite i realli like this boy well i think i do its like whn i got im i dunt feel like i wont im but when es gone i wont im back and i like him and i fink he likes me but the boy i go out with are like always older than me soo no how to make the first move and i always end up doing summin with them e.g sex but wid tha boy im wid he hasnt done nufin with a girl thats fine but e wunt make the first move to kiss me and i realli dunt feel rite and i went to kiss im n he seem to back off shuld i dump im ?? i duno coz i will wont im back and i alreadi dumped im once b4 and i realli dunt wonna hurt im so will sum 1 plez help me

2006-11-10 09:20:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If the image in my profile can't be found, here it is- just copy and past the link:
http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b284/SCHelmetProject/Photos/kurtisl.jpg

2006-11-10 09:19:55 · 9 answers · asked by KurtisWithAK 1 in Singles & Dating