I have a boyfriend...?

Question

i get nervous around him and quiet what can i do to not be quiet around him. i don't want to lose him. he asks me why i don't talk around him much. Can sumbody just help me PLZ?

Answer 1

Prepare. Make a list of things that you might talk about when you're not all nervous.

Consider:

1. tell him about your day.
2. Tell him about your family.
3. Ask him about the above topics.
4. Does he go to church?
5. Does he like it?
6. Other likes/dislikes?
7. What does he do for recreation? Invite him to tell you about it.

Also, try to meet where there's something to do other than just talk. Go to a bowling alley, mini golf, a sporting event. Here you can lighten up a little bit and become more comfortable just being together and get over some of the anxiety.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

The best advise I could give you is to try to figure out why you are nervous around him. Is there something about him that makes you nervous? If it's a new boyfriend, then it's probably just a matter of not knowing him that well, and the only way to remedy that is to talk about what you both like, dislike, etc. Just try to find some common ground, and take it from there.

Answer 3

1st ask yourself why you get sooo quite when he is around. Maybe your out of your comfort zone so you need to get comfortable. It's alright to be shy but people can get the wrong impression if your always quite like ur not interested. Try to open up more and don't be nervous. Just ask some general questions to spark up conversation. Then ask some real question you want to know to show some personality. Good luck!!!!!!!

Answer 4

well how long have you guys been together? AND how long were you "talking" before you got together? If your boyfriend and girlfriend you should be a little comfortable with him by now. Are you a naturally shy person? I suggest taking him somewhere you know and doing something YOU know and are good at. Therefore you can explain to him what it is you guys are doing, thus making you talk more. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 5

well, may b u just dont feel confortable yet 2 b open w/ him. what u can do is talk 2 him on d phone and write him things sayin how u feel that will help u 2 b more open around him and he will also see that u guys r truly meant 4 each other.
well, hope everythin goes great and take care.

Answer 6

well it's your boyfriend you should be nervous around him but if you are maybe it's not the right guy but if you want to keep him just begin to say more things each time or just say something so random that can get you guys talk about anything and everything
good luck

Answer 7

Did you talk around him a lot when he wasn't your boyfriend or is this one of those "I met him and now we're going out" things? I think that if you knew him before, it should be really easy to talk around him, just act like you two are friends and nothing more. If you barely knew him before he became your boyfriend, why did he become your boyfriend so quickly???

Answer 8

I would try to find out what you two have in common from people you feel more comfortable talking to first. That way you have something to talk about next time there is that awkward silence.

Answer 9

don`t be shy around him * . he ain`t gonna bite youu . =] you said yes because you really likee him . now dont be shy because you can`t show a person how much you really love them beinq shy . you have to be fun & loud & crazy but not too crazy so he thinks you`re a phycho . but you know whut i mean. juss be a little louder so he knows that you love him & tell him you love him once in a while . that helps . i hope everythinq works outtttt ! =]

Answer 10

Tell him ur shy but if u guys go out a lot, u will get more and more comfortable around him, it just need time.