well, i've had the hugest crush on my best guy friend for about a year now. i met him before he had a girlfriend, and i fell for him really bad...
He seems to be really happy with her, but it hurts so much to see them together and i want to be with him so bad....am i a bad person for feeling like this? i really want to know because i'm so confused. =)
2006-11-10 09:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't control your feelings. If you really care for this guy you should not interfere with his relationship, he may resent you for that. Not all relationships last forever, if he happens to break up with his girlfriend I think you should let him know how you feel but not right away-you don't want to end up as the rebound.
2006-11-10 09:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have told him when you had the chance. What goes around comes around sweetie. Besides as women we should be able to back eachother up. You know damn well if that were to happen to you, you would HATE the other girl. If its meant to be it'll be. If hes meant to be with you and not this girl, they will eventually break up. No matter how "happy" they seem together. Patience is a virtue.
2006-11-10 09:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by TheLight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be how you are but is nothing to help you.
Do you want hurt the girl or mess up their relationship. Can you somebody like you around and you with him, and she wants him too. Just be realistic think like you never got the idea in first place, be over, you don't know him at all, is out of your interest.
2006-11-10 09:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was married when I started seeing him. Boy, did I take alot of crap. Not only from the wife (ex-wife) but from everyone. Her family, my family, her friends, my friends, etc., etc.. So, no I think that a person has to follow their hearts. Thats what they will always listen to over any other reasoning. You just can't help but to be that way. Its human nature. Its like you know what your feeling but what are you thinking?! I say go for it, you only live once.
2006-11-10 09:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not bad coz u like him. it would b bad however if u tried to ruin it between them. maybe once they brake up u could tlk 2 him and tel him how u feel? but all the while hes got a girlfriend if u do something u could brake the relationship u have with him? x
2006-11-10 09:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by keyguitargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't feel the same way about you. it is going to hurt really bad and it will suck. so make sure you want to make that move before you tell him. i lost a good guy friend by going out with him and now he won't even talk to me anymore and hasn't for years
2006-11-10 09:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is with someone else and if you attempt to interfere with his relationship...he may dump you as a friend. Respect the fact that he has a girlfriend and move on.
2006-11-10 09:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, thanks for that. you've gotten issue promoting him as there's a glut of those on the marketplace on the prompt. you may want to attempt including somewhat grubby image of a few b*mbo as an incentive. solid success
2016-11-29 00:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about him anymore and try to visit new people and find new friends it helps you to forget him.it takes some weeks to be calm & forget him
2006-11-10 09:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Farnaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you'd be making a huge mistake cause what goes around comes around..... remembar that!!!!!how would you like it if someone did that to you....just let them do there thing and if and when they break up go for it then....
2006-11-10 09:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋