2006-11-10 09:14:57 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ever think that maybe he just wants to have a few values? Or maybe, just maybe, he doesn't like sex with you because you suck at it but he can't bring himself to be mean to you...lol
2006-11-10 09:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by rdnck_grl_ms_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart please never look at what is 'outside' of you for happiness and intimacy. This boy obviously 'respects' you. Sex is just that, Sex. When one allows oneself 'time' to get to know the other person, intimately via conversation becoming closer, one connects to one on a much deeper level.
I will assume if you are sexually active you are responsible with this, if you know what I mean? But do not approach your thoughts with negativity as this may indeed manifest and become your reality. Alway make choices that serve your highest good. And remember to always own your own 'consequences'.
Sex is not fun. Making love is divine.
And you can make love if you are married or not. Religion has no right to rule under the bed clothes. That is mans doing...not Gods.
Blessings be yours in light and peace,
Harriett Potty ;)
2006-11-10 18:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by harriettpotty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to break up with him just because he want have sex. Have you asked him his reason for not wanting to have sex? I think that is a good thing if he isnt ready to handle the responsibilities that may come from having sex. You need to move on if sex is your only interest. In the years to come you will want a man that is responsible as he is.
2006-11-10 17:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to look at what attracted you to him and him to you. I would bet that he loves you so much that he never wants that to be something that would totally destroy your twos relationship. Once you have sex with them, you are no longer friends (think about the last guy you had sex with, when was the last time you talked to him?). Find another way to love girl, don't let sex befall an awesome relationship with someone who just might love you with all their heart, mind and soul. It sounds like you really like him, just wanting to add the sex, but it is just not time yet. Don't push it. ------> add. kudos to just turning 40 on your response also!!
2006-11-10 17:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by ludwigkicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force someone to do something they're uncomfortable doing. if you love him, you should understand him; ask him why he doesn't feel comfortable having sex. it could be that he has never had sex before, and he is nervous about it. or maybe he feels sex should be saved for marriage. however, if sex is all you're interested in from him, then let him go. don't trail him on like that; it's not fair to him.
2006-11-10 17:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Duelen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to break up purely because he doesn't like to have sex? or are there other issues at work here.
open communication is best. try to talk about each of your needs and come to a compromise. otherwise, if you are not getting your needs met, sounds like you need to muster up the courage to break it off.
2006-11-10 17:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by pot paw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good for your boyfriend. He's the smart one. For once it's the guy who doesn't want to give his sex away on a one night stand which you are going to be. AIDS lady in case you've forgotten and the morals. please learn them
2006-11-10 17:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A pathetic reason to dump someone. Should look at other reasons why you like him... if it was just the sex your shallow.
2006-11-10 17:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Text him! Tell him that it's not him. You just need some space and you still want to be friends. If you text,you don't have to do it face to face.
2006-11-10 17:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur self if ur in the relationship bcuz of sex or bcuz u luv him enuff to stay with him
remember that a relationship is nt based on sex only
i think u shud cuz he nt giving u wat u really want fron the relationship-sex
but if u wanna stay with him thenn r u willing to forgo sex in order to b with him??
u need to search deep into ur soul for wat u really want n then follow ur instincts n act upon it
2006-11-10 17:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by brawneyedempress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋