what should i do!?!?

Question

should i become an emo boy?
i moved here from el salvador a year ago. i left my family, friends (even though i didnt have many), and my girlfriend. this made me depressed and mad for the whole year.. this year im trying to talk to people more but i still feel sad and depressed, i even cut my wrist sometimes... and i told my friends in el salvador that i was emo... they hate me now which makes me even more depressed.. should i still be emo and tell my friends here that i am, or keep on trying to make friends here even though theres no much use in it?..

Answer 1

well el salvador, the best advice I can give you is to be true to yourself. Call your Family or someone you trust and care for, they will always be there for you! But hurting yourself is never the answer, fin an outlet something that you love to do that helps you release your tension frustration and anger. This will help you to clear your head and think rationally. for me my outlets are gymnastics, and god I feel so much better after I go to the gym, or give them to god. So find your release, call someone you love
and be true to who you are, your true friends will stick by your side. I know you can do it! Good luck


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Answer 2

Girls who undergo some transformation (fat to slim, ugly to pretty, unpopular to popular) realize that it's easier to manipulate the people around them into getting what they want. Like Lindsay Lohan did in Mean Girls once she was one of the Plastics. Less popular or less physically-attractive people will most of the time bend to the will of "prettier" people. This means that even if you won't do what she wants, she'll find like ten other people who will. Not just that, but she doesn't "need" you anymore. Even if you stop being her friend, she'll have a whole bunch of others waiting in line. Since she's "pretty" now she'll just want to hang around people who look just as good as her so everyone can acknowledge her as part of the HOT crowd. You should just get over it. Ignore her and after middle school or high school (I don't know what you're in) you'll totally forget about her. If she's as dumb as you say, she'll end up living at home not going to a good college. You just focus on studying hard, get into Harvard, get an amazing job, and then when she's living at her parents' house at age 30, you can drive by in your BMW and cackle at her. HAHA. Maybe not the last part, but you know what I mean. Just forget about it, you'll see what I mean soon enough!

Answer 3

you should seek help. you are very depressed and you need someone to talk to. go, talk to a counselor or a doctor. they might prescribe you some medicine, which should help you. the move is a big change; it's natural for you to feel depressed! you just left everything you knew!! try to keep in contact with your family and friends, but don't tell them you're emo.... emo is a steryotype, and not a very good one at that.

Answer 4

BRo .. first get some counceling. i am saying as an insult
and also just call your family and talk to them and keep trying to make friends.... If you need soem to talk to.. iam here

Answer 5

Live your life for you. and get out of your depression and do things. get some friends ..

Answer 6

Just be yourself. If they were your real friends then they'd accept you for who you are.

Hope this helps.

Answer 7

dont let them get to you be whatever you want you dont need people's advice on here this should be your desicion and not any one else

Answer 8

b what u r dont care what other people think of u. ^_^ IM if u want

Answer 9

Be yourself, don't be something for anyone but you.