Well I am a guy 25 years old. and I never seem to fall in love with any woman. All I want, it seems is sex.
I had only 2 sexual encounters so far though.
What is my problem?
I mean I get interested in a girl and suddenly I lose interested. I am always into sex, but I am not the kind of person that takes advantage of people?
what shall I do?
P.S. I AM STRAIGHT.
2006-11-10 09:06:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all go through that, eventually ou will find someone who will knock you off your feet.
2006-11-10 09:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to look for a group of people who enjoy the same interests as you and maybe there will be a gal there that both she and you are interested.
As far as taking advantage of people....having sex with others outside of a married committed and loving relationship is taking advantage whether both consent or not.
and always into sex....seems a desperate need to be fullfilled and get high on it. Surely I think you are made of more substance than that. Relationships are made of much much more than the sexual encounter and how you can temporarily satisfy each other in the bed. If that's all there is, you will come away empty for you are not reaching for the heart and soul.
2006-11-10 17:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 25 there is nothing wrong with desiring sex, that is actually natural.
Figure out what qualities you want beside sex. Only date people who have them (please be picky, it's better then the hump 'em dump 'em thing, unless it is what the girls want).
Do you actually ever want to be married? If you don't, do not start relationships until the other person know they are going down a dead end street. They might still feel like crap when you leave, but if you tell them first, your concious can be clear.
2006-11-10 17:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by sucha_jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a commitment of the heart, the soul. Once you make this commitment your in for the ride Buster, of your life.
Sex, on the other hand is just the feeling for ten minutes, maybe the body, the hormones know. I really don't know but, once the feeling is gone, it's over. Ask anyone that's had an affair, how sorry they were after it was over and how sorry they were.
2006-11-10 17:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same answer...the reason is because you haven't found the right girl to fall in love with. you haven't found that special "someone". don't confuse sex with love...you can have sex all the time, it doesnt mean you're in love. believe me, i know this. just don't look and that's when it will sneak up on you. she could be right down the street or miles and miles away in another state. don't rush it...you'll be ok. i promise. just stay open minded and it will happen. you seem like a really great guy. just don't change yourself to what you think women want, ok? stay sweet.
2006-11-10 19:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that you've only had two woman is most likely the problem, You need to have more sex and then you'll calm down alittle about it and start to focas on other things as far as a relationship goes...
2006-11-10 17:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, I would say, that you are afraid of or not that interested in a relationship yet. That is normal. Some people don't fall in love until later in life. Hang in there it will happen eventually. You will meet the right one.
2006-11-10 17:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe don't jump into sex right away. Find out about the girl, her interests, and her personality first. Having sex with someone won't make you fall in love with them if you don't love them already.
2006-11-10 17:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem might be that u have had little experience, with women overall. if you lose interest quick then just keep on meeting different types of girls eventually you will come to meet the type that keep u interested. you will fall in love eventually though so don't stress out about it. enjoy life.
2006-11-10 17:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Tanyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find the right person, you'll fall in love. Don't worry, my sister was the same way, and she just got married a few months ago at 30. When the right one comes along, you'll know.
2006-11-10 17:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to overcome this lower nature and understand that the only place for sex is within marriage. That's the only thing that will set you apart from the Sea of Jerks and make you worth going out with. If a man can't stop being selfish, he's not worth messing with.
2006-11-10 17:10:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋