After my boyfriend came back from a week-long trip, and we hadn't had sex in weeks, and I was so excited to see him. For at least the past 6 months I had a pretty low libido, and rarely initiated kissing, foreplay, sex, or being intimate. Now I feel almost like I did when we first started dating, sexually aroused when I see him, initiating sex, making out and enjoying it. The problem is, he told me yesterday he likes sex better when I give in and don't want to do it, more than he likes having sex with me pouncing on him the second we're alone and actually enjoying it. I thought guys liked it when the girl takes initiative once in awhile, what's going on? How are we both supposed to enjoy sex if he likes it when I don't, and he isn't turned on as much when I really want it? I love enjoying sex, but now that I know he doesn't enjoy it as much, I feel very frustrated and stupid. Help!
2006-11-05
07:31:59
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greenlife
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