Okay so Im going out w/ this guy and i've always liked this other guy since 3rd grade and now i'm in 8th. We've hung out but he's never felt the way i do about him. Now that I have a bf he wants to go out w/ me, should I???
2006-11-05 07:22:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH? IT'S YOUR FUTURE
2006-11-05 07:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by daisy9p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in the 8th grade, you shouldn't be in a committed relationship. Not with your boyfriend or with your 3rd grade friend. You're too young to handle all that's involved. It's all right to date these guys but that's all. You should be able to date without worrying about a committed relationship. Be honest with your boyfriend and tell him, "you want to date other guys" but, you and he can still be friends if he likes. Who knows, he might want to date other girls. For the next several years, do not worry about a committed relationship. Give yourself the chance to enjoy your teenage years as you learn and grow.
2006-11-05 12:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'd start by saying that you are a bit "young" to be in a "committed" relationship. You are bound to meet other guys that you are going to be interested in. Don't cut yourself off by limiting yourself to one person.
You should be able to "date" anyone you want to date without worrying about a "boyfriend". There are so many opportunities out there for you.
Don't get "serious" with anyone, just go out and have fun!
2006-11-05 07:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who are u attrected 2 more? but b4 u dump ur bf (if u want 2 go out with ur crush uved liked 4 quite some time now) u shoul think long and hard about it cuz if u make the rong choice u have 2 live wit it
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-05 07:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by <3333 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your boyfriend things aren't working out and sorry you have feeling for another guy. He should rather you be up front and honest to him then go behind his back. Then you can go out with the one you really like without lying or deeply hurting the other guy.
2006-11-05 07:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on several things- like how long u been w/current guy & who do u like best---is he just asking u out NOW cause u gotta man??--really need 2 have more info 2 get better advice---good luck sweetie!!
2006-11-05 07:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by anjL_iiiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart if your unhappy with your boyfriend then dump him and go with the guy who you have feelings for and tell that guy how exactly how you feel. do what makes you think what is right.
2006-11-05 07:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋