Do you enjoy it or do you just "FAKE IT "?
2006-11-05 07:39:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
l you must be married along time lol
2006-11-05 15:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends really I guess. Do you make her feel guilty if she wont have sex...it makes it feel like a chore then...are you making it seem like its the most important thing to you...Have you ever wonderd why she doesnt want sex or why she is giving the impression that she is doing you a favour....On the other hand why would you want to have sex with your partner if your not getting the responce you want...i hope you can sort this out for both of your sakes
2006-11-05 09:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by cinders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is a favour in a way, if you dont feel like it but the other person is like a raging animal your going to satisfy them because you love them and want them to be happy. It works both ways, the same for women. I never "fake it" if i really didnt want to do it and couldnt be persuaded i wouldnt bother in the first place.
2006-11-05 07:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by herbal ashtray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if women do that they are probably not enjoying it and letting you know ...so they probably is doing you a big favour if they are doing it regardless of the fact that they dont enjoy it!...if it was good sex you'd be faking a headache to keep her off you,lol ;0)
oh second part of the question...if i didnt enjoy it it would never happen again...;0)
2006-11-05 10:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that some women fake it because they dont want the man to feel insecure or feel like they arent good enough as they talk themselves up to be. faking it sometimes helps a man's confidence.
i think that if you truely know your partner and knows what she enjoys and what gets her aroused, you can please her the right way and not have her fake it-if assumed she was.
some of the ways to find out what the lady wants is to ask her what she would like him to do to her. that way it gives her the control to direct him in pleasing her. you can also watch porn together while masturbating in front of each other to see how the other person touches themselves.
hope this isnt your problem. if it is... youre missing out on what a woman can offer.
2006-11-05 07:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never faked (I much rather let them know they're no good..), and I've been known to be the one to do the begging.. hehe! Maybe it's a favour if you're not in the mood at all.
2006-11-05 07:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men do give the impression that they take sex for granted. If a woman doesn't want to have sex, she must not be forced to do so. However sometimes she's not even asked, so she has to comply otherwise it's thunders and lightnings.
2006-11-05 07:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by MH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy I'm hooked up with the wrong lady then as my fiance certainly doesn't make it feel like she is doing me some sort of favour.
2006-11-05 07:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are chosing the wrong partners most woman like sex and are as eager as the man.
2006-11-05 12:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they never let them down, they feel that they are the boss while having sex. they command the way of having sex in which they feel comfortable.
2006-11-05 07:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by urchoice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called control. If you become good enough at it, the women end up begging you for it, and then you have control.
2006-11-05 07:42:58 · answer #11 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋