I have caught my husband on more than one occasion lying to me. The first two times, it was little things - he'd been chewing tobacco (yuck!) behind my back since we met and he'd gone to a strip club with his friends...whatever. I was more upset by his "reasoning". He lied because "he knew I would be mad and get crazy." In my opinion, if you are doing something that will make your wife mad, you shouldn't do it. A few months ago, I caught him having secret conversations with a woman he used to date...not just every now and then, they were talking about 4-5 hours a day (with about 8 seperate calls); and they'd only talk when I wasn't around. He lied about it continuously until I pulled our $450.00 phone records. That's ended (as far as I'm told - I can't get past it though) but now I catch him lying to me again about how he's been in contact with one of his (guy) friends. What should I do? I get so mad but is it warranted? I think so. But, am I making it too huge? He says yes
2006-11-04
11:19:38
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