I heard on Dr. Phil this woman call the other whore several times and she was so mad because the other woman had had oral sex with her husband.According to her the other woman had managed to pull away her husband cos she could offer oral sex.Question is if her husnad likes it what is wrong with her giving to her husband ? Does it really demean women? I would think that if was with a man who offered to me i would offer it to him.
2006-11-04 11:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by prairie girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if she's in a relationship or marriage then no, its not the same as prostitution where sexual favors are exchanged for money....
2006-11-04 11:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure why that woman would call her a whore, its not like she is single and offering strangers on the street oral sex. in my opinion, and this is just an opinion, if two consenting adults want to enjoy the pleasure of getting/giving oral sex, by all means go for it. There is nothing wrong with a gf and bf doing the same thing. now if they whip his thing out in public for all to see and do it, then thats another story.
2006-11-04 19:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by abbyhawaiianlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is a man a whore if HEoffers oral sex to HIS patner in a steady loving relationship or marriage? Dr. Phil is no way an expert on anything, the only reason he ever made it where he is today is because at one time he was friends with Oprah. Being a friend of Oprah doesn't make one an expert on anything.
2006-11-04 19:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, people see women as being whores in different ways. If the woman knew the man she was giving oral was married, she is in the wrong, but it doesn't neccessarily mean she's a whore, unless she was getting paid to do so. Marriage is about compromise, and sometimes you do things you don't like for people that you care about.
2006-11-04 19:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by ßαßε 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is not wrong, that's her husband. As long as she is not going around doing this with multiple men and only her husband, it's not really anything wrong with it. That's her private life and no one elses, I don't think she should have been on Dr. Phil discussing it anyway. If she felt something was wrong with it, she should have went to a real therapist and kept it confidential. She is not a whore, she is married and it's nothing wrong with trying to do things to please the person she loves.
2006-11-04 19:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL oral sex is part of forplay
I am married to a french man he does not beleive in having sex without forplay both partner should perform
and no you are not a whore because you give your husband oral sex
if this the way the wife think than the man is correct into leaving her
evryone deserve the pleasure of wonderful sex
2006-11-04 19:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are in a relationship with someone and you are engaging in sexual activity, as long as it's consensual it doesn't matter what you do. Dr. Phil is a very judgemental person, and the only people I'd imagine agree with him are super conservative and only engage in missionary for the means of procreation. Sex is a healthy part of a relationship.
2006-11-04 19:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Marsha Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are always putting titles on things, its
your man and you do with him whatever turns
you both on sexually. Nothing to be ashamed of
as its a natural act when two people are
bonded togeather.
2006-11-04 20:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah the woman is a whore because the man is married. and it does really demean women. its not what you do it is how you do it
2006-11-04 19:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it definatly does not make you a whore to pleasure your husband in ANY WAY!
a married couple can consent to any kind sex they like and its nobody's business.
some women may find it demeaning but really shes the one with the power in that position
2006-11-04 19:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by drtgirlz 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I doubt that oral sex was the issue. How about her friend & her husband committing adultery? That was why she was upset.
The other is quite secondary.
2006-11-04 19:38:30 · answer #11 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋