Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

my gfs best friend talks so much crap about her to me, so i finaly got sick of it and told my gf. so my gf went to her with it and she turned it around on me and said i lying to make myself look better. what should i do?

2006-10-29 12:43:18 · 10 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 12:42:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's 37 yrs. old and he is older than she is, they see each other almost everyday and talk to each other more than once a day.

2006-10-29 12:42:35 · 2 answers · asked by T*L*A*Y* 1 in Singles & Dating

even when shes offline on aim i get lonely wut shud i do?

2006-10-29 12:41:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok seriously!...i told this guy that's 2 years older that i like him a while ago and i dont know how he feels! i think he might like me but im not sure! he looks at me a lot in class and kinda smiles but i dont know if thats what hes doin! like 2 or 3 of my friends think he likes me too but they dont know 4 sure! its not like he ignores me or anything i mean we still talk everyday but i think he might be avoiding telling me how he feels! what does this mean and what should i do?!

2006-10-29 12:40:55 · 2 answers · asked by Jesika C 1 in Singles & Dating

He is poupler than me

2006-10-29 12:40:13 · 13 answers · asked by - anti jonas - O_O 2 in Friends

2006-10-29 12:40:05 · 13 answers · asked by finest_of-them_all 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm told that most men are not romantic. What do you think? And if you have an un-romantic boyfriend/husband but you're still happy, how does me make you feel valued if he's incapable of being emotional?
Any comments on this matter are appreciated

2006-10-29 12:39:51 · 9 answers · asked by CC 3 in Singles & Dating

I met him at a dance we met through my friend Jenna
SIGNS

he danced with me to "sexy back" by J.T

he put his hand on my leg when I was sitting on his lap

then this girl (Jenna) was taking pics of me her and him and he was in the middle so yea and then all of the sudden he lays his head on mine!

okay so afterthe dance I was like hey do you have a myspace and he was like no and then he was like do you have an IM and I said no then he made a pout face (after I said no) so finally I was like I have an email adress and he was like yea can I have it so I gave it to him and he saved it in his phone and then took a pic to go with the contact

he asked for my cell number and I was like I am getting a new one for my b-day next month and so he was like give Jenna (girl on my soccer team that goes to his school) your new cell # when you get it and then he was like Jenna you have to give me her cell number when you get it k?

he hugged me good bye and said he would emailme

2006-10-29 12:39:37 · 6 answers · asked by apbudge 1 in Singles & Dating

it can be by your family members, bf/gf, friends

2006-10-29 12:39:09 · 17 answers · asked by airimluvs 3 in Singles & Dating

We knew each other from before but started dating for 5 months now. His kind and a great friend, but as BF material, he confuses the F#@K of me! One week his into me calling me and wanting to see me and the next his abit distant and kind of cold and this goes on and on in a circle. I'm not the nagging type and I hate saying why dont you do this and that!
He says to give him time and he'll warm up to things. I feel like Im the man in the relationship really, I pay and enitiate all our outings and stuff and he hardly includes me in his things. I dont know if his like this coz his confortable with me as we use to be mates before we went romatic. I tried talking to him but Im not sure if his confused or just likes to be alone alot of the time and when he wants to be with me then he puts in the effort. I just dont know whether his coming or going. What would you do? I do like him and I know he does too more then friends? but why does he do this then? Help pls!shld I leave?

2006-10-29 12:38:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy off of a dating site, he took his profile off there after we met, but when I asked him why he did that he said I never got any messages from anybody. I've known him almost 2 years now, and he knows me quite well, when he found out I liked him he freaked and said he only liked me as a friend, but later on he gave me one of those virtual hugs and roses and a heart one time, and he said, I can't do this, you're too young, hes a little older than me. and he calls me lovely, and pretty a lot, but he acts funny, I just don't know, its too hard for me to tell, and I don't want my mom to know just yet about this because I met my ex the same way, I really like him a lot, what do you guys think?

2006-10-29 12:38:07 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

She's in one of my classes, she sits right across from me. I have a crush on her and I want to ask her out. But if she says "No', I'd be so embarrased seeing her everyday. Any advice?

2006-10-29 12:37:59 · 26 answers · asked by muffinman 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this friends on my that used to flirt with me in high school. One time and I give it to him, since I like him too. About a year a a half later I went to his college for a semester and I saw him again. We talked for a little while, later he mentioned about the kiss we had before and propose to have another one, and I accepted. In the afternoon I sended him a text message saying "You left me unfocus", then he responded with a text message saying. "No more kisses ok, friends only, ok." and I was fine with it. We talk and decided our friendship is very important and that we will not take it beyond that. We saw each other as if nothing have happened, he seemed a little distant with me though. However three days ago, we saw each other again, we talk for a while, (this time he wasn't distant) and he ask me for a kiss again!!! Wasn't he the one who said no more. By the way I did not kiss him this time but I wasn't rude with him either. What is going on with him? What should I do?

2006-10-29 12:37:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is my body language conveying some wrong message?

Do the girls insecure? Or do they feel some sort of guilt, knowing that Muslims approve of modesty rather than skin flashing.

I actually have to tell them to relax and "I'm not looking there" for them to feel at ease.

I'm a bearded Muslim and I look directly into people's eyes when talking.

What do you think?

2006-10-29 12:37:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 12:36:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is currently 16 and has a steady boyfriend of 7 months. She recently came to me and said she plans on having sex with her boyfriend soon. I am extremely glad that she felt comfortable coming to me with this matter but was completely unprepared for it. I was in a similar situation at her age and I feel that I made the wrong choice... I became pregnant with her shortly after my 16th birthday and raised her as a single parent. She knows about this but said she still wants to have sex. I told her it's up to her and her boyfriend but that she should wait until marriage at which point she said "Why? You didn't" I am completely lost at what to tell her, so I guess the question is should teens be having sex at such a young age? Any suggestions on what to tell her? (seeing as personal experience is not a good basis)

2006-10-29 12:36:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After my parents got divorced my dad took off (maybe a year after) I didn't talk to him for 5 years and then we reunited...then we lost touch again for another 4 years. In that time I married and have 2 kids that he never met til now. Whenever we try to meet, he has to take his wife with him (which is FINE with me) but, he won't plan on any days that she isn't available. My issue is, he has now met both my kids. the other day he wanted to get together adn I said sure I can meet up with him after I get my daughter from preschool. He said..oh, I just wanted it to be us. I think thats kind of mean. He hasn't had a relationship with me in years and has only met my kids once. I don't understand why he would want it to be just me and him (and his wife, who he calls his "shadow") I feel like saying...well my kids are MY shadow! Am I being too sensitive?

2006-10-29 12:36:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its been almost a whole year since i let her borrow it n she still didnt pay me back. she wanted to buy sum expensive purse n a pair of shoes n she didnt have any money, n she was begging me for it. but now i really need that money cuz i gotta baby on the way n i could really use that. i worked hard for it n i explained to my sister about how i need the money n she told me, "well if you didnt get ur gf pregnant u wouldnt be having this problem." i really love my sister but shes a pain in the ***. how can i get her to pay me back? i feel kinda bad everytime i ask her

2006-10-29 12:34:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my brother is always bugging me n he is already like 15 yrs of age...he constantly tries to annoy me to the point where i start crying of anger...what should i do about this situation??

2006-10-29 12:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by The Taste U can See 3 in Family

i think my guy friend likes me we always flirt and he talks to me he gets all happy and laughs and looks into my eyes and just completly changes we r friends but i dont have his number or ne thing i like hi m alot i think he likes me one day i was mad at him and i was like being very mean and he just smilied and looked like he loved talking to me. my friend thinks he likes me...do u think he does??

2006-10-29 12:33:58 · 12 answers · asked by xo l 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 12:33:51 · 13 answers · asked by Sonya 5 in Weddings

He has initiated the dates and makes the calls. Do you think he is too scared to make the first move? Or maybe just not interested? I am getting a little frustrated! Guys, feel free to respond!

2006-10-29 12:33:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i work in kids church every sunday and so does my ex. sometimes i get a little jealous when the other girls follow him around and flurt. i dont say anything but it hurts realy bad. he broke up with me so that is why i am still tryin to get over it. it also seems like he gets hotter every time i see him. am i over reacting or is this norm? i tryed to find some

2006-10-29 12:32:51 · 1 answers · asked by Heidi 1 in Singles & Dating

When You move in with a women, You have all this great stuff you accumulated as a single. After a couple of years in a relationship it's all gone! how do they do it?

2006-10-29 12:32:32 · 5 answers · asked by Bo V 4 in Singles & Dating

ex: your bf/gf doesn't call u and always hang up the phone..and says he/she's gonna call u back but they dont..Then all of a sudden he/she asks you to go to school together..and tell u "I love you"

2006-10-29 12:30:47 · 7 answers · asked by airimluvs 3 in Singles & Dating

I met someone online YEARS ago.It wasnt until the past month or so we started talking on a regular basis. It was then that I lied about who I was, what I looked like really. I used a picture of a relative instead of revealing my true self because I was ashamed of my looks at this point in life. When I fessed up, EVERYTHING changed immediately. He no longers calls or ims me, emails are like pulling teeth, and now I am leaving the state to live with family in the south due to this and other issues. I have no clue what to do. He really was a very sepcial person to me.

2006-10-29 12:30:34 · 18 answers · asked by kcrobinson03 2 in Singles & Dating

had raped her when she was a kid would you believe her? Shez never mensioned it b4, she was drunk when she said it and my father has never touched me in that way. I dont know what to think!!!

2006-10-29 12:30:21 · 9 answers · asked by genieejj 3 in Family

My ex-boyfriend use to be really nice, but now he is such a jerk. When we dated he neva talked to me. I need a good boyfriend. Where have they all gone?

2006-10-29 12:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

I know she likes me, but I think she's a player, so I wanna know what to do to make her jealous

2006-10-29 12:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by R. H 1 in Singles & Dating