If you have been dating someone for over 8 monts, and there isn't any definate signs that he wants a deeper re

Question

She's 37 yrs. old and he is older than she is, they see each other almost everyday and talk to each other more than once a day.

Answer 1

After 8 months and no signs of an upcoming committment, it shows that she is probably wasting her time if he says nothing about a deeper relationship. At age 37, if she is looking for a husband, she should not waste any more of her precious time on this man. Women have biological clocks. He is a man and can wait almost forever. He needs to make up his mind which way he wants to take this relationship very soon or lose her to someone who knows what he wants right now.

Answer 2

It still early, but I know you don't want it to take too much longer. I would say re-evaluate the situation after one year. That is usually the time period you will know if it is going to work out or not. After a year, if things are still luke warm, I would move on. Don't put your eggs in one basket if he hasn't shown any signs that there is a commitment on the horizon. You could be waiting to catch that bus for another year, and who needs it, life is too short!