even when shes offline on aim i get lonely wut shud i do?
2006-10-29 12:41:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its that crazy little thing called LOVE.
Make sure you dun get obsessed,tho'.
Instead of wasting time getting depressed,
how about think of something creative to do the next time
you two get together ;)
2006-10-29 12:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, mate. You obviously like this girl or its your first girfriend, either of these :)
You must have friends and that isn something to do when your girlfriend is not around, go on Internet, read a book at the end of the day. You must have hobbies, go play football with friends.
You mustn't be annoying to her, remember that, she can lose interest in you or think that if you so desperate than she can play you and use that against you. Like if you had an arguement she won't call you for couple of days and I bet you would phone her every 10 minutes trying to say "Sorry, its my fault".
You need to relax mate. Take a deep breath. You must have a best friend or something like that (as in you probably do). Don't forget about your friends when youate some girl. Girls come and go, friends must stay for long time as they are very important. Not like your gf is not important but your friends are as important.
When you not around your gf go do something with your friends, enjoy your hobbies. If you calm down and do something you will forget about your fear for some time. You are probably afraid that she will find someone else while she is away from you. Stop worrying mate, its ok, she dating you, she likes you. Have more confidence in yourself. Believe in yourself, make yourself to believe that she is as loyal to you as you are to her (not like she isn't, didn't mean that).
Chill man and bne careful don't get on her nervs too uch, she may think you annoying or irritating and lose interest in you. Otherwise if you not seeing each other every day ask her what she is doing and come over to her house or something.
You have one life and you must enjoy it fully, that doesn't mean that you must be with this girl. Do something else. And calm down, she is not leaving you, she likes you, get your confidence up.
Good luck and wish you the best, Wolfy.
2006-10-29 12:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find an activity separate from her that makes you happy. You may think that you need another person happy but in the longrun you'll find that you can never be happy that way. One is only truly happy when they're happy with themselves then and only then can the be truly happy with another person. If you can't find happiness with yourself then you will only end up in a vicious cycle of co-dependent relationships.
2006-10-29 13:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to needy for your girl. It may be because once you started dating her you forgot about all your old friends. Make some new friends or hang with the old. Point is spend some time with people other than your girl friend. You won't be so depressed and it will make the time you spend together even more special.
2006-10-29 12:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by marzena_1990 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've felt the same way too before with my boyfriend...it's really crazy thinking about what he is doing and if he's off to somewhere, he could've just left me a message...
hey, i'm not clingy but i make it a point to tell my whereabouts to my beau....this is only my request for him to return the favor..
now as for your loneliness...since you are here, go to the jokes section and you might find something funny or just read about the smart a** answers of people in here...some are just funny...it helps me through a few hours though..
or you could answer my questions..
2006-10-29 12:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Savor those feelings and let her know how much you love periodically but don't get all mushy and clingy with her from the get go. It's too much. it is a good sign however that you have these feelings . Be strong lonely one.
2006-10-29 12:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a hobby...
...Make sure not to be too obsessive, I did that and the relationship crashed like the Columbia.
2006-10-29 12:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Pray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way. When my bf is offline i feel so lonely. What i did is leave lots of offline msgs. and go here, in YAHOO ANSWER.
2006-10-29 12:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
same problem wit me.it mite sound strange,but i start missin him even we do talk,cuz ill know it'll b over.he's very busy and we dont spend a lot of time together n e more.i have clinged on tite to him.but its natural.it means u reely like or is in love wit this person
2006-10-29 12:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've centered your world around her. Not good. You need to go back to the times you did not have a girlfriend and do the things you used to enjoy.
2006-10-29 12:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Gloria H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋