She's in one of my classes, she sits right across from me. I have a crush on her and I want to ask her out. But if she says "No', I'd be so embarrased seeing her everyday. Any advice?
2006-10-29 12:37:59 · 26 answers · asked by muffinman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it brother.
2006-10-29 12:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is always a tough situation! I think that you should let her get to know you a little bit (talk, flirt, etc.) and then you should go with your heart. If you really want to ask her out, I would strongly suggest it! Not asking her is just as bad as her saying no... there is a chance in her saying yes if you ask her!!! If she does, however, say no then you have to move on. That doesn't mean you cant talk anymore... you could become really good friends! Good luck! For future questions remember, The Answer Man can ALWAYS help!
2006-10-29 20:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by The Answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do two things, first Id make or buy her a little card, something sweet but not over the top, Id write in it annonomously and ask her if she would be interested in going out with someone in that class for her to put an object on top of her desk, something like a small pebble or whatever as a sign, if she does then ask her....Secondly you could ask someone you trust to quiz her on if she has a b/f already and if she likes you too. I like the pebble idea coz if someone did that to me, Id have to say yes!!!! even if at first I hadnt even noticed them b4, the whole mystery would have me interested.... good luck.
2006-10-29 20:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by genieejj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her out anyway. You will regret not doing that when you are older. You will always think back...and wonder why you never had the balls to ask the cute girl out that sits across from you.
2006-10-29 20:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Angels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl says no, don't be embarrassed, continue to be yourself around her. At least you had enough bravery and manhood to stand up and go for what you want. Many males sit behind the scenes quietly and missing out on opportunity because of the fear of rejection. Go for it!!
2006-10-29 20:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Gloria H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you know what you should do? First of all you have to have confidence in yourself and then take the next step. You can start by making a conversation with her and then see what comes next. See what she thinks about you and if you feel she feels something, than go for it. Good Luck!
2006-10-29 20:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Berenice A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to think positive. It's not 'what if she says no', its what if she says yes. I mean, if you really liked her, then you should be willing to ask her out and not care what the consequences might be. I would just observe how she acts around you, and find out if she has a boyfriend, and if those questions lead to single, go for it!
2006-10-29 20:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by XOXOkrazykittyXOXO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the muffin man or what? sheeesh. Talk to her first. Get to know her a little. You will be able to tell if it will work out pretty quick after you talk to her. If she acts interested ask her out. If not you have a friend and maybe more later on.
2006-10-29 20:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a girl says no, it doesn't always mean she'll avoid you for the rest of your life. befriend her... try to open up a casual conversation with her without insinuating that you'd ask her out again. make her feel comfortable with you. and perhaps once you've established a good friendship with her, she'd reconsider her previous rejection.
i should've done this YEARS ago back when i was in highschool. i was just too chicken sh** back then.
2006-10-29 20:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey muffinman...
Listen, you have to take the first step because she probably won't! Girls usually wait for the guy to take the first step or we think you're not interested. If you're afraid of just confronting her with it, ask her to something like a party, to the pub, etc, nothing to romantic so if she says no it seems like you were just acting as a friend.
2006-10-29 20:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by marzena_1990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres what you do. dont ask her out . but tomorrow comes say to her, you look so pretty today. and your smell , what kind of purfume are you wearing. once she tells you what it is, then ask her . you are going to the mall today cause you want a new bottle of cologne. what is your favorite. and then ask her, hey if your not doing anything would u wana come help me pick out one? now expect to pay $40.00 for a bottle, but its worth it cause u didnt directly ask her out, but now your out with her. and during this time is when you get to know her and at the end of the day say, i really had a great time, thanks for coming and helping me out.
girls dont want guys to say " uhhh durr , would u like to go out with me durrr. its a cheesy line. do my way, trust me. and if u need tips on how to get some, let me know. i got some good moves too
2006-10-29 20:43:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋