There is this friends on my that used to flirt with me in high school. One time and I give it to him, since I like him too. About a year a a half later I went to his college for a semester and I saw him again. We talked for a little while, later he mentioned about the kiss we had before and propose to have another one, and I accepted. In the afternoon I sended him a text message saying "You left me unfocus", then he responded with a text message saying. "No more kisses ok, friends only, ok." and I was fine with it. We talk and decided our friendship is very important and that we will not take it beyond that. We saw each other as if nothing have happened, he seemed a little distant with me though. However three days ago, we saw each other again, we talk for a while, (this time he wasn't distant) and he ask me for a kiss again!!! Wasn't he the one who said no more. By the way I did not kiss him this time but I wasn't rude with him either. What is going on with him? What should I do?
2006-10-29 12:37:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't understand people who allow someone else to control their life.
Who cares what's going on with him unless you're a boomerang....stay away from him and set some boundaries for yourself.
2006-10-29 12:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you step up and cal the shots for a change ... tell him there is to be no more kisses ... make him beg... also i woould tell him until he decides to tell you what his real intentions are and how he's feeling aboout you ... that he is to consider you both as just friends.... hope this helps... PS... he could be toen between you and someone else.
2006-10-29 20:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a player.....I would steer clear all togather.....other wise at some point he may try to make you feel guilty...and if you give in he wins and you feel worse than ever. My advice....terminate the the relationship altogether.....no friends...nothing.
2006-10-29 20:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by kb9nss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what is trying to pursue. Then mention that you don't like to be toyed with. If he gets upset that means he's not serious. If he's interested he should pursue you. Now that he knows how you feel.
2006-10-29 20:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to be bed buddies, or maybe he doesn't know what he wants either and needs some space to decide.. ask him, we're all grown ups here
2006-10-29 20:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tavin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is careful to see his desire satisfied without any fringe.or frill
2006-10-29 20:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player - ignore him
2006-10-29 20:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by playing_shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋