my gfs best friend talks so much crap about her to me, so i finaly got sick of it and told my gf. so my gf went to her with it and she turned it around on me and said i lying to make myself look better. what should i do?
2006-10-29 12:43:18 · 10 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2016-10-16 13:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend that you aren't that insecure that you have to talk about her friend to look better. Let her know that you told her the information because you care for her and don't believe her friend has her best interest at heart.
Let your girlfriend know that trust is important in a relationship and that you wouldn't lie to her and it is important that she believes you.
If she takes her friend's side you may have to back out. Don't let her reactions keep you from being honest with future girlfriends.
2006-10-29 12:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop it and wait.
If the best friend is really that much of a B***H then her true colors will come through eventually and your girlfriend will see.
I'm a big believer in the fact that the truth always comes out
2006-10-29 12:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when some people are confronted with a mistake they made, they dont want to see the truth that their behavior is inappropriate. if your friend can't see that you were trying to help her by revealing things to her, you can't do much to change that.
i would let it rest for a few days and when the emotions around this have calmed down, try talking to your friend over a coffee and let her know that you were trying to be helpful. if she isnt receptive to it, you may have to move on.
2006-10-29 12:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by maggiemae821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like something that would happen in a movie....... u should just get a little recorder and tape when her supposidy "best friend" talks **** about her ......... if you dont want to do that then just wait it out or just move on and forget about it
2006-10-29 12:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by panicorblink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the friend when your gf isnt around and just tell her THATS MY WOMAN YOUR TALKING ABOUT! YOUR NOT A VERY GOOD FRIEND AND I DONT WANNA HEAR IT!!!
2006-10-29 12:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off it sounds like a bunch of highschool drama.. you need to respect the people she chooses as her friends same as she should respect your space and your friends. otherwise neither of you will have anything "new" to bring to your relationship and it will eventually just deteriorate not to sound negative.
2006-10-29 12:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by the alpha princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her friend (Calmly!) and then the three of you can talk to her and the friend at the same time.
2006-10-29 12:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jane ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them all together and sarcastically say "YEAH THATS EXACTLY WHAT I DID, I WANTED TO MAKE MYSELF LOOK BETTER BY MAKING YOU LOOK BAD. THAT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE"
2006-10-29 12:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by Fernesta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋