Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

2006-10-27 09:11:15 · 19 answers · asked by cherrie d 1 in Singles & Dating

My better half is giving me less satisfication these days and wanting me to give him all the satisfaction. He wants me rub his anas with my fingers, etc. and to give him oral while doing it, etc. I think he would rather give me anal than vaginal sex as well but I haven't let him because it hurt too bad when he tried and quite honestly all this male anal stuff is freaking me out a bit. Is it just for his pleasure, is it that good? I feel like everything is better than my vangina because he seems to like oral better. Ok yes it sounds a bit like he just selfish too but what about all this anal? I guess it is no big deal but what do you think?

2006-10-27 09:11:04 · 16 answers · asked by Tess 1 in Singles & Dating

Wife says chatting online and using a cam to pleasure yourself is cheating. Husband says it's not because there is no actual physical contact.

Wife asks husband to stop because she feels betrayed now that he knows how she feels about it, & he says he will. About 8 months later she wakes up in middle of night to use bathroom (she's pregnant) and finds him pleasuring himself while on computer. He swears he hasn't done it since they first discussed it, cries that he loves her and swears up and down to never do it again because he knows how much it hurts her. Wife doubts, but because she's pregnant and they already have another child, believes him.

Wife has gnawing feeling it's still going on and does some "investigating"on computer and finds husband is STILL doing this (and never stopped). This time he uninstalls chat software and removes webcam and claims it's all "nothing." Please don't leave him.

He won't go to counseling as he's too ashamed to talk to stranger about it. Thoughts?

2006-10-27 09:10:36 · 22 answers · asked by Neeners 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my girlfriend and trust her and we have been in a great relationship. But later I found out that when she talk to her ex on the phone (which is not very often) they still call each other "honey" (the guy lives in another city). I was furious and mad, of course, and she argued that she and her ex have been using that word all the time (they had been together for quite some time and they broke up around a couple of years ago) and they never mean honey like in a lovingly manner, just friends, but I was still mad. Then she cried because she worried that I was going to leave her because of that. I forgave her and life went on but at some point she still call him "honey" again and I got mad and that cycle goes around again and again.
We continue to have great relationship but this thing makes me think sometimes.
Any clues?

2006-10-27 09:09:52 · 12 answers · asked by Whatta 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 09:09:03 · 27 answers · asked by cherrie d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 33 years old and dating this guy that's 25 years older than me for about two years now and I still havn't told my parents. I guess I'm afraid of disappointing them. Our friends don't have a problem with it because they know we love each other and he treats me the way that I want and need to be treated. So why should I be afraid to tell my parents??

2006-10-27 09:08:11 · 20 answers · asked by antsy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 09:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Momo lover #1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 09:07:59 · 13 answers · asked by h1joy 2 in Singles & Dating

people think im wierd because i let my little sister sit on my knee? I just posted a question asking for suggestions for a game or something we could play because were bored and a few people started calling me a pervert because she was sat on my knee? shes 9 im 15?
Does anybody else think thats wrong?

2006-10-27 09:07:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

been raped? I was and I really do not know what to do about it. I am still mad at him, but I also am trying to forgive and forget. It is a hard subject.

2006-10-27 09:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by hugsnotdrugs3333 2 in Singles & Dating

i have seen my wife is having sex with three different men in three different occations . each time she told me that she would nt do it again , and next time . she will tell that she couldnt help having it . she loves me a lot and i love her too what to do ?

2006-10-27 09:07:39 · 26 answers · asked by jaga j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do most men and women find true love?

2006-10-27 09:07:21 · 13 answers · asked by ragged 3 in Singles & Dating

THERES THIS GIRL I LIKE IN SCHOOL SHE IS IN ONE OF MY CLASSES I DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT HER BUT SHE IS QUIET IN CLASS.ABOUT THREE DAYS AGO AFTER CLASS I SAID HELLO TO HER AND ASKED HER IF SHE ENJOYED THE CLASS(WE WATCHED A DOCU -MOVIE IN THAT CLASS ) THEN SHE SMILED AND SAID HI AND SHE SAID YA IT WAS SO EXCITING BUT WE ONLY TALKED ABOUT 2 MINUTES . THE NEXT DAY I COULDNT SAY NOTHING BECAUSE SHE WASV TALKING TO SOMEE GUY AND GIRL THEN THEN TODAY I SAID;HEY KAYLEIGH YOU LOOK PRETTY TODAY AND SAY OH YEAH OR SOMETHING. DONT KNOW IF SHE WAS LOST FOR WORDS OR WHAT AND SHE ALWAYS HAS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE WHEN SHE TALKS TO ME. BUT IF I DONT SAY ANYTHING TO HER SHE WONT SAY ANYTHING TO ME LIKE IF I SEE HER IN THE HALL SHE WONT SAY HELLO ONLY IF I SAY IT FIRST THEN SHE WILL SMILE AND RESPOND. i feel like a fool becauase she only talks to me if i talk to her. REALLY LIKE HER WHAT SHOULD I DO

2006-10-27 09:06:53 · 6 answers · asked by king of soccer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 09:06:41 · 5 answers · asked by RANDI B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 09:06:39 · 9 answers · asked by OU812 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously I would like to know if guys truely value a girl's virginity as a gift or if it's just "she can't have anything". I always thought that it was a very special part of a girl's life but when my boyfriend took my virginity he told me that guys just don't care.

2006-10-27 09:05:12 · 33 answers · asked by Ria L 2 in Singles & Dating

Really? You hear it all the time, I would die for...or give my life for... Would you? If yes, who would you really die for and why? Your husband? Child?

2006-10-27 09:04:49 · 48 answers · asked by Whoagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 09:04:23 · 6 answers · asked by losman762003 1 in Singles & Dating

know your future partner well enough to run for cover if they turn out to be incompatible on a daily basis. It also protects the woman from just shacking up forever since the guy has to decide to commit or not. What do you think of this idea?

2006-10-27 09:04:11 · 7 answers · asked by OU812 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend asked me to marry him, but I think that I'm not ready, I love him of course I do, but I don't want to get married yet I don't like the way he made me feel when he asked, it was like he wanted a answer right away, and it scared me. I love him and I don't want to hurt him by saying no, and I don't want to get married yet! I need your help, what to do?

2006-10-27 09:04:10 · 17 answers · asked by sweet heart 2 in Weddings

2006-10-27 09:03:38 · 25 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, me and my bf just recently moved into our new apt and of course we are having a lot of sex. Now, before we were in the apt, we had the best sex ever, I gave him oral and he gave me head too. Now that we are in the new apt, it seems as if I am giving more than he is. We usually always take the time to make sure that the other is satisfied to the fullest.

He has been slacking in that category and I mentioned it to him yesterday night. He thinks I am wrong is letting him know how I feel about that.

What do you guys think about this???

2006-10-27 09:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

she just got married 1 month ago and got fired for no call,no show but husbands stands behind her and says it's O.K. and he'll work 2 jobs. While he's at work she runs steady to old drug friends and lies about every thing and if you ask if things are o.k., you get screamed at for butting into her private business. I can see she is losing ground fast and going back to her old ways but don't know how to help her. she won't tell me the trueth about anything. she always was an habitual liar and has the attitude of ME FIRST even over her 2 babies from a previous marriage. She drags them out when she runs off and I have had to take over custody twice now and the athorities say say next time ,they go some where else not to me. She acts like they're lieing and she's not worried. I've threatened to turn those friends in to athorities if she don't stay away and so did her husband but she goes any way. what can I do to get her attention that I am serious. I want those babies safe and I will do it

2006-10-27 09:02:30 · 21 answers · asked by lcj43938 2 in Family

hmm, i dig this girl so MUCH.

i actually view her blog everyday without fail.

i read every single detail of it and relate it in my blog.




goshh...im going nuts over her...

i need help in maintaining love for myself..

goossshhh i have to try to stop this, but i cant...





please advice me on what i should do about this.

2006-10-27 09:02:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Are there any married women or women in live - in long term relationships that are still turned on by their husbands, especially in public, or when your at social gatherings?
Am I the only one, my husband and I are still very deeply in love with one another at our age I'm 49 and he is 57 and I can't keep my hands off of him....... our children are grown now.

2006-10-27 09:00:55 · 18 answers · asked by jupitor 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 09:00:28 · 8 answers · asked by losman762003 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't understand why guys cheat or lie or just use girls for there on benefit we have feelings to.

2006-10-27 09:00:12 · 21 answers · asked by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi People
as a young boy, i have some powerful sexual senses that make me Annoyance.
in the Religions i learned that i must wait until the marriage. but i think i cant do it now. so if i make some sexual friendship with a girl , i do a sin or not ?
what can i do ? wait again or free myself from religion ?

2006-10-27 08:59:53 · 7 answers · asked by Person Like you 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I HAVE THIS REALLY GOOD FRIEND OF MINE WHICH I HAVE BEEN GETTING REALLY CLOSE WITH LATELY AND WE HAVE BEEN KINDA TOO CLOSE BUT I THINK THAT IM STARTING TO LIKE HIM. H EALWAYS MAKES LITTLE REMARKS AND HINTS SAYING THAT HE LIKES ME.. BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE DOES IT JOKIN AROUND.. SHOULD I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL?? AND HOW SHOULD TELL HIM??

2006-10-27 08:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by H-POO_02 1 in Friends

ok i have htis ex and he moved to nebraska ( i live in kansas) and i dreamed that i was at a cross country meet an i saw him there i was like wow!! and he sees me an comes running screaming my name then he goes an talks to his coach an then comes back with me an he jumps on top of me an i try to kiss him but he wont let me then i try again and he lets me. It was perfect!! then we walk around the course. Then theres this bed in the middle an me an him make our way twords it an lay on it for while an talk then my teacher comes out of a closet ans screams HAHA!!!! an then goes back in the closet. An we go back to our make out scene.... an my now boyfriend opens the door an sees us then he looks so sad then shuts the door and leaves then i wake up....... any idea what this means?? i love my boyfriend and hate my ex he never treated me rite..... but still i wanna no why i dreamed about him

2006-10-27 08:59:38 · 4 answers · asked by Cate 1 in Singles & Dating