My better half is giving me less satisfication these days and wanting me to give him all the satisfaction. He wants me rub his anas with my fingers, etc. and to give him oral while doing it, etc. I think he would rather give me anal than vaginal sex as well but I haven't let him because it hurt too bad when he tried and quite honestly all this male anal stuff is freaking me out a bit. Is it just for his pleasure, is it that good? I feel like everything is better than my vangina because he seems to like oral better. Ok yes it sounds a bit like he just selfish too but what about all this anal? I guess it is no big deal but what do you think?
2006-10-27 09:11:04 · 16 answers · asked by Tess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he touches my anus a lot more now days too. No I don't really mind pleasuring him in anyway but I do need some satisfaction myself too! Yes I have worried about him being gay! Silly?
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FYI: I have had sex talks with him OVER & OVER! He always promises to do more but it doesn't last. I am the man in the relationship! I am super horney and want sex all the time!!! But he seems to only do it to shut me up is the way I feel a lot.
2006-10-27 09:23:24 · update #1
Yes right below the balls before you get to the anus he says feels great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 09:26:00 · update #2
We have been together for 11 years now. He mentioned when we were dating that he and his friends (not him he said) tried oral. I never questioned or mentioned it ever again! I thought it was a test or something because he has always been quite obsessed with me. We are always together and everything. But his sexual drive is zero so when I do get some I want it to be good but then it seems like only he gets satisified and I am left to myself. When we were dating we did oral and stuff all the time! We didn't have sex until we were married and he nevered seemed to care much about it. I wanted to have it non stop on our honeymoon and he though a couple of times was good enough.
2006-10-27 09:35:50 · update #3
I make a joke about him being gay and he got really mad the way I said it to him. Not that I called him gay but the way I was talking to him.
2006-10-27 09:40:44 · update #4
stimulation of the prostate will result in more intense orgasm for him with increased capacity. To most guys this is a big thing.
That's not the problem the problem is that he is more worried about his pleasure and less about yours. You need to have a serious talk about your needs.
2006-10-27 09:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All this crap about "he may be gay" is hogwash. I'm straight as an arrow and love my anal region stimulated. And that little area between the scrotum and the anus is very sensitive. It just plain feels good. If he's clean and has no odor what's the big deal? As for his desiring anal sex with you I suppose it's the feeling of taboo sex that is pushing him this way. If you don't want your butt to be an "innie" then tell him so and he'll only be left with the vagina...right? Sex is not meant to be a contest and as long as both partners agree then nothing is off limits. And remember that it's only kinky the first time! *wink*
2006-10-27 09:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is really trying new things yeah anal is fun and it does feel pretty good(also if he takes the time to do it right it can be for you as well but only if you are willing to try and keep an open mind otherwise stay away or it will more then hurt) Allot of guys just really don't take the time or don't care to get the girl to feel satisfied more so they just are lazy. This does not have to be the case let him know how you are feeling with out starting an argument and let him know that you will be willing to do these things he wants to do but must first be willing to do things for you otherwise there should be no sucky sucky or ****y ****y he has to understand that your needs should top his. He is not weird for wanting to experiment but if this is all he likes he needs some help
2006-10-27 09:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Since birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay or no gay, do u care. so far as he is able to do it that's fine. i think it's normal that some guys want to at least try the anal once, if he wants to go anal, u should probably try it once more. sure it hurts but it's a sacrifice u should be willing to make and suffer the consequences later. if u are able to do that for him, it would definitely show him how much u love and care for his feelings... who knows, he might end up satisfying your desires too.
2006-10-27 09:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by otsatsa3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay potential you experience sexually involved in adult males. It has no longer something to do with the in basic terms actual excitement you would be able to get from anal stimulation. it is easily no longer that uncommon for right away adult males to love this, I worked in a porn shop so i might understand! :)
2016-10-03 00:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The anal area is where men have their g-spots. Yes. hard to believe but it is true. The prostrate is an area that is near and dear to the anus in men.
It is scary sex though. Being the anus is an area that shouldn't be so gross.
2006-10-27 09:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a straight man and I really enjoy anal stimulation...but your guy sounds like he's being a little selfish
2006-10-27 09:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal for men to like anal stimulation because it is an area which is very sensitive. God wouldn't have put it there if it wasn't intended for occasional stimulation in a sexual sense.
2006-10-27 09:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think he is gay. Just a hunch. If he is not into vaginal sex and likes oral and anal stimulation... hmmm... he's gay.
So, yes, it is normal... FOR A GAY MAN!
2006-10-27 09:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Stukish 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-27 09:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋