i don't understand why guys cheat or lie or just use girls for there on benefit we have feelings to.
2006-10-27 09:00:12 · 21 answers · asked by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I can't understand is WHERE are you girls meeting these guys. I know plenty of guys that are girless because the girls don't want to commit to a real relationship. Guys don't know what girls want, and girls don't know what guys want, somewhere the comunication has broken down. If the guy is looking for a real relationship, he considered a nerd or gay, or if the guy is a bad @$$ he gets ridiculed by the girls. So the bad @$$ gets what he can in usage, and the serious guy gets the shaft. After you're done getting your heart stomped on, try a serious guy for a change and see what you think.
2006-10-27 09:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that. I know lots of guys that would never cheat. Young guys have a strong sex drive and it makes them do stuff like that. Look for a guy that is a little older, more mature. Maybe that will work.
I know this is not a good answer but it's the best I can do. It's the way guys are wired. Until they mature a little they are sometimes out of control.
2006-10-27 09:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human nature... people are selfish and do not care about other people. Remember though not all guys are like this. Also some women are this way to.
Sounds like you had a bad experience. I am sorry about that but try and find another guy who won't treat you that way. There are some of us out there.
2006-10-27 09:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us want a woman to share life with, enjoy good conversation with, grow as individuals and as a couple together, and celebrate our successes with as much as we can.
The rest, well, those are a dime a dozen. Bad boys are everywhere and they seem to act in total opposition to what normal people like ourselves act. They just don't get it. They are just dumb or work in upper management and have huge ego's.
2006-10-27 09:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, like girls don't do the same thing to us? don't make this sound like guys are the only people who want to get laid, girls cheat and lie just as much as the rest.
2006-10-27 09:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by burnttoast97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like this but our nature is to try for sex but if you love that girl or woman properly you will wait until she is ready or your married. Never give or accept jealousy aviod it at all cost if a person does this they are not worth having.
2006-10-27 09:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allot of dudes are just jerks or obsessed with sex. some ppl understand this and try there best to stop it and treat girls right. i love girls and can see why dudes are obsessed with it but i try to stay clean from that because it is wrong. i love Jesus and i obey Him as much as i can. The Bible says not to do so so i just don't.
2006-10-27 09:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzystuff511 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm and girls don't do the same thing. Sounds to me you just had a guy do it to ya... Pick yourself up. Pull your pants up and your shirt down and get back to life. there are plenty of good guys out there waiting for someone like yourself...
2006-10-27 09:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Scott 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, dont judge a person bec. he did something bad with you. girls also, do bad staff and cheat and wanna have sex as guys want.
2006-10-27 09:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but we dont! Some do but not as many as the women who use men for money, house, cars etc xx Stop being so bitter and enjoy your sex more
2006-10-27 09:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋