Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

2006-10-27 13:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Friends

lets say you're married to this woman for 6 years, everything is perfect, kids healthy, bills paid, relationship is beautiful. she sits you down and tells you 4 years ago when yall were having problems she cheated on you and your youngest child may not be yours. keeping in mind all the things yall accomplished together and all the feelings for that child, what would you do?

2006-10-27 13:44:44 · 16 answers · asked by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 in Marriage & Divorce

As a fifteen year-old female, I find it very disconcerting to see people mistaking me for 20 and up. At school, a girl randomly walked up to me and said "How old are you? Cause, you look really old." I replied with a "How old do I look?" She said I looked 24. 24 years old, a full 9 years older than my actual age. Another man tried to speak to me, and older man, mind you. After I told him I had just turned 15, he said "I'm sorry." It's amusing, and it can come in handy at times, but it's not really a reputation I wan to keep up. I'm not overweight, either, and I'm a junior in high school. What steps should I take to "look younger"? I know 15 is a very young age to start thinking about getting older, but wow. Do I really appear to be that old?

Thanks.

2006-10-27 13:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 13:42:40 · 10 answers · asked by Becky H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 13:42:24 · 3 answers · asked by phil d 2 in Friends

I was on the computer talking to my so called "friend" until her boyfriend got on and wouldn't talk to her but would talk to everyone else, she said to me tell him to talk to me so i said no as a joke but b4 i could say jk she was like ur just jealous and i was like omg no i am not so i told him to talk to her then signed off?? what should i do?

2006-10-27 13:42:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I told my crush that i like him. the next day at school, i looked for any signs but it seemed as if he was ignoring me. how do i tell wut he is feeling? should i tell him again?????

2006-10-27 13:42:06 · 11 answers · asked by purplepup220 2 in Friends

Its been 4 years, 4 months and 2 days since my last relationship, I need to make sure I don't have another one.

2006-10-27 13:41:57 · 39 answers · asked by D 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for quite awhile now but I still get nervous every time I have to call him? Is that weird? I get the nervous feeling deep down in my stomach like i'm calling a new guy or something. What is wrong with me?

2006-10-27 13:41:53 · 13 answers · asked by Shannon83 1 in Singles & Dating

single and dating

2006-10-27 13:41:24 · 4 answers · asked by sexyblakk 3 in Singles & Dating

what do i do? i have an on and off relationship with this boy that i love. everytime i try to speak my opinion, he says i'm being annoying, but if i dont speak my mind, i cant stand keeping quiet about something important. what can i do?
*how can i talk to him without him thinking im annoying?

2006-10-27 13:41:18 · 3 answers · asked by jessie w 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy i was with brokeup with me a week ago but i love him and we keep breaking up and getting back together but this time he got a new girlfriend and i feel wired cause i still talk to him but it hurts so bad it feels like a knife is stuck in my heart and is being pulled out and put back
he still talks to me like were together we get into little fights but i dont know why he did this to me

2006-10-27 13:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by reddevil_149699 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 13:40:31 · 8 answers · asked by ganesh5_gani 1 in Friends

do you think that they are one or seprate?

i believe sex is just physical..not love...that you can do it because of love or emotions but the act itself has nothing to do with the two..

well that's just me..what you you think?

2006-10-27 13:39:26 · 23 answers · asked by togamadness 2 in Singles & Dating

I am dating a man (and love him dearly), and he's recently proposed. I'm uncertain partially due to view of my friends. SItuation, he has a daughter (age 7) and he is a terrific dad to her. We live in Boston, she lives in Maine. He does everything for her. He has another daughter, age 3, she lives in the midwest. He has never attempted contact with her, and doesn't plan to. Totally absent. He has been contacted by the mother on several occasions but he insists on the mom "finding a new dad" for their daughter so he can be "out of the picture". This is disturbing, but I still love him. I need input. Should I assume he could possibly go down this same road with me in the future, completely dismissing my child (if we conceive one....after marriage)? When I ask him about it, he says that she "trapped him", and he isn't going to be taken advantage of. Yes, he pays support on both children (by court order). Ladies, would you stay away? Move on? Men....input too please.

2006-10-27 13:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 13:38:35 · 15 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom's house has gotten broken into at least 4 times!!! Guess thanks to who? My little sister, an a$$ hole . SHe threw parties when mom was not home. 200 people would come and go within the house. THe entire house is a mess, everything stolen. many people have been in and out of the house. Mom is devasted. We just lost dad, we lost grand pa on mom's side. Mom struggling financialy and emotionaly. I dont know what to say or do. We all don't know what to do. THe cops even catched some burglars within the house but yet they released them. Like what the FV#%!

I wish we could get her a$$ locked in jail for good. Heck i dont even know if we can get her locked up! I just want my mom and my family to feel safe again, I just want her out of the picture for good.
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2006-10-27 13:38:32 · 6 answers · asked by liipl 1 in Family

Like you can't really do anything... I mean they're right there... whats the best thing one can do?

2006-10-27 13:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by noam c 1 in Singles & Dating

i love him with all my heart but i just ca't do that right now...i'm still young and i want to live my life...he just don't understand...

2006-10-27 13:36:41 · 13 answers · asked by roxie s 1 in Singles & Dating

my exboyfriend and i was in a relationship for 4 1/2 years and we broke up 2 1/2 months ago. we broke up because he felt that we were too young to get too serious. i was 16 and he was 17 years old when we first met. i asked him if it was someone else that he had in mind and he said no. i was hurt because he just decided to tell me one day that he wanted to be alone. i was puzzled because i could not figure out why he felt like that, after telling me that we were going to be together forever.we were both hurt because we did not want to lose each other.2 days ago i asked him if he wanted to see and said yes. and asked him if he had slept with any body and he did not want to answer me. i had to get him mad by telling him that i was f uckin g another guy in order for him to tell me. his answer was no. i believed him because he had no reason to lie. i told him the truth so i would expect the same from him too. today i tested and asked him if he wanted to see me and he said IN THE FUTURE.

2006-10-27 13:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by sexxxxyyyy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 13:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by tony r 1 in Friends

He is not able to have children, and you may want them? Would you work out a plan or would your quest for your own children be so powerful that you would want to leave him.

2006-10-27 13:36:11 · 14 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

In November 2004 I lent my wedding tiara(value $120) to a friend of mine as she was getting married Feb 2005.
When I saw her the week after, she told me she didn't like it, however she didn't return it to me.
I asked several times but her reply was - "It's locked away with all my other wedding things" (this comment was made after the wedding).
I even sent her a few text messages.
It's nearly 2007 and still I havn't got my wedding tiara back. I won't be wearing it again, but it does have a lot of sentimental value.
How can I get it back without breaking the friendship. Mind you, I don't know why a friend would do this to me.

2006-10-27 13:35:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Today at my high school we had a pep rally. My girlfriend and me are both 17. My girlfriend is on our school dance team. Durning the pep rally she was with the dance team. a song came on and she was dancing all over this guy. I was feeling really jealous at the time. Is it normal for me to be jealous or not? What do you think?

2006-10-27 13:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl but i think she got a boy friend how do get to atleast good friends with her

2006-10-27 13:35:37 · 6 answers · asked by Kris 1 in Friends

I recently agree to get back together with my ex-fiancee'. We had been together for 3 years and separated Christmas of 05'. Our split wasn't go friendly. The last time I saw her was in March of this year. We didn't talk at all until several weeks ago when I call to see how she was doing. I saw her last week and she suggested that we get back together. I do still care for her and I suppose I still love her, but I'm not sure if I am making the correct decision. She has lots of male friends that she talks to often and I've gotten over that fact, but I have a weird feeling in my stomach. Did she realize that the grass is not always green on the other side of the mountain? BTW, we did not separate because one of us cheated on the other. If you don't learn from the past, can your future ever be a success?

2006-10-27 13:35:23 · 5 answers · asked by Ssky 2 in Singles & Dating

I refuse to date more than one person at a time, even when nothing sexual is involved. Example: I could not go on a first coffee date with one woman one day, and a first coffee date with a different woman the next day. I know I could never "speed date" or do multi dates. That would just feel totally wrong to me.

The only exception to this is if I know for *absolute certain* that there will be no chance of a second date with the person I just went out with.

Is this weird? Am I needlessly limiting myself? Am I too old fashioned? Or is this an honorable and admirable trait?

2006-10-27 13:35:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey, seeking some ladies advice.

ok- so i went to school today (friday) with the intention of asking this girl if she wanted to do something this weekend... shes in my gym class but today she wasnt here. we just met in september, and we dont really know each other apart from the occasional conversation. i didnt really feel like waiting til monday, then the weekend is over and i have to wait.

so i called her when i got home from school... turns out she was sick today. anyways i told her i liked her and asked her if she wanted to hang out, maybe go ice skating at the rink with me.

she said she had a lot of homework and a couple other plans and couldnt but maybe some other time.

that answer seems like an excuse to saying no to me. but she didnt sound like she was lying... keep in mind this would be the first time a guy has expressed feelings for her according to her and my friend megan.

and what do i do now? call her, talk in gym? and when? GAAAH

2006-10-27 13:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by sakic_cikas 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm divorced and raised my children w/o any help from my ex husband. They're now grown and are really good kids and cause no problems. I solely support myself, do not have financial debts and am easy to get along with. People say I'm pretty and I have a sense of humor yet men that I meet want just sex and not to get to know the real me. I don't sleep around and just want to find someone that wants to be with me because they like me for who I am. I feel that I am so disgusting to people and that depresses me. I don't think I'll ever meet that someone special.

2006-10-27 13:34:04 · 24 answers · asked by quiet_one 1 in Singles & Dating

Without actually seeing or noticing them?

2006-10-27 13:33:45 · 10 answers · asked by Chief Slapaho 1 in Singles & Dating