i love him with all my heart but i just ca't do that right now...i'm still young and i want to live my life...he just don't understand...
2006-10-27 13:36:41 · 13 answers · asked by roxie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stop giving mixed signals. (You should know what I mean) Tell him straight out that you are not going to do anything more than kissing. If he doesn't like it let him go. I know you love him but you can't let him pressure you into doing that. I predict you will not stay together, but this is a good thing because he is not a good match for you.
2006-10-27 13:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you should try sitting him down and explain it to him what you are asking all of us right now. Just tell him how you feel about him and say it clearly that you aren't ready for that yet.
2006-10-27 13:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your boyfriend wants to get closer, it normally means he is thinking about settling down i.e., marriage...Before things become serious, tell him how you feel and that you aren't ready for that type of commitment.
2006-10-27 13:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Candidly and honestly tell him you are not for that stuff, you love him but your principles do not let you act that way.
Principles is what your parents, teachers and religion have taught you all your life.
If he loves you he will understand and desist.
If he does not love you he will insist and probably leave you.
But you will know he did not love you .
So he´s not worth it. You won.
2006-10-27 13:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means that he doesnt understand that u rnt ready yet. try telling him. tell him that u luv him but that ur not ready for a further relationship. make it clear that u dont want to break up though unless u do.
2006-10-27 13:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by horse_luver_wyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOORAY & 3-CHEERS FOR THE GIRL WHO KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS & SAYS SO.
You're obviously more mature mentally than your bf, but you've just got to stick to your guns and keep telling him that what he wants ISN'T what you want. If he can't honor your wishes, perhaps he's not the person you wish he could be???
2006-10-27 13:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he does not truly care about you. Tell him to accept your decision or move on. If you give him what he wants, he probably won't stick around anyway and all you will have is regret.
2006-10-27 13:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's just getting attatched because he's slightly insecure and scared to lose something good. Just play it easy, if he doesn't get the picture then cut him off early before it gets harder and a lot worse.
2006-10-27 13:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, then you're just not ready. Dont let him influence you into something that you dont feel comfortable doing.
2006-10-27 13:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are the highest apple on the tree...tell him to wait, or reach for another.
2006-10-27 13:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋