hey, seeking some ladies advice.
ok- so i went to school today (friday) with the intention of asking this girl if she wanted to do something this weekend... shes in my gym class but today she wasnt here. we just met in september, and we dont really know each other apart from the occasional conversation. i didnt really feel like waiting til monday, then the weekend is over and i have to wait.
so i called her when i got home from school... turns out she was sick today. anyways i told her i liked her and asked her if she wanted to hang out, maybe go ice skating at the rink with me.
she said she had a lot of homework and a couple other plans and couldnt but maybe some other time.
that answer seems like an excuse to saying no to me. but she didnt sound like she was lying... keep in mind this would be the first time a guy has expressed feelings for her according to her and my friend megan.
and what do i do now? call her, talk in gym? and when? GAAAH
2006-10-27 13:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by sakic_cikas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her a week or 2 ask again. If you get the same story, take the hint and move on.
2006-10-27 13:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, i am in the same situation!!! i got u man. first of all, dont call her back!!!! plz dont..if u call her too much she will start to not answer ur phonecalls. on monday ask her if she feels better..tell her how her weekend went. she said maybe some other time so u have ur foot in the door dude!!!!! all u have to do is talk to her as much as possible but as casual as possible and try not to annoy her. that would be the worst. also, in gym, try to be skillful and athletic n see if u can impress her! that's what i do! chicks dig guys who are athletic. dont be shy wen u talk to her...just be confident, calm, and cool and ull be fine. the MOST IMPORTANT THING IS PATIENCE!!!! if u dont wait n she gets annoyed with u then it will be over b4 u know it. also, try not to ask her out again unless u defintely c a change with her personality with u. if she flirts n she approaches u more than u approach her then the time has come to go on ur 1st date!!!! dont worry dude, ull be fine.
Good Luck n remember, good things come to those who wait...n u know what i mean ;)
2006-10-27 13:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, chill out maybe she really did have plans already made, and school is important. You should just wait til Monday a talk to her in gym and ask about her weekend seem interested in finding out what she is all about. Then on like Wed, ask her out for a movie or ice skating, find out what she would like to do. If you like her and she likes you then sooner or later yo two will hang out. Good Luck Sweetie!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 13:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by krazydavina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say go with the second guy because he is really going through some things and he needs some support. The other guy has no problems with getting a girl so let him find one. And nearly committing suicide is serious so you would have to be strong and calm to handle him when he gets 'crazy'. He also seems sweet he wrote you poems and notes. Also the other guy for me would have been a straight up no because hes been with my friends serious or not i dont come second to someone that we both knew if he liked me so much he wouldnt have went out with my friend.
2016-05-22 01:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask one more time. There is no harm in that. Listen, the guys who ask a lot of chicks out get the most chicks. At very least it will make you comfortable hitting on women. But you can live with this rule NEVER ask 3 times. If a chick wants to go out with you she will not make an excuse twice.
2006-10-27 13:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her next time in class. Hopefully, she'll ask you next time! If not, wait 2 weeks I reckon, then ask her again! Don't ask her to do something with you the FIRST time you see her because you'll just look dateless and desperate lol. Hope it goes well!! xx
2006-10-27 13:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her up about tuesday
talk to her on the phone at gym
not before
if you want to call before
don't ask about going out
just tell her you called to find out if she's doing ok (sickness wise that is)
2006-10-27 13:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe text her once in awhile or a lil' chat during gym. Dont do it too often, as you aren't sure abt her feelings towards you.
2006-10-27 13:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by kyuri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really like her then just talk to her...tell her how you feel and maybe she'll listen...i'm not the best person to give advice but that's what i would do.
2006-10-27 13:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by roxie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was trying to be "nice". Women choose that over being honest. She meant no.
2006-10-27 13:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋