In November 2004 I lent my wedding tiara(value $120) to a friend of mine as she was getting married Feb 2005.
When I saw her the week after, she told me she didn't like it, however she didn't return it to me.
I asked several times but her reply was - "It's locked away with all my other wedding things" (this comment was made after the wedding).
I even sent her a few text messages.
It's nearly 2007 and still I havn't got my wedding tiara back. I won't be wearing it again, but it does have a lot of sentimental value.
How can I get it back without breaking the friendship. Mind you, I don't know why a friend would do this to me.
2006-10-27 13:35:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be honest upfront and in her face about it now. It sounds like maybe something has happened to it. If so, she had better replace it. Hopefully she is just being ignorant and you can get it out of her. How rude!
2006-10-27 13:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out you want it back and don't back down until you do. tell her to be honest with you and to tell you what really happened to it (but don't say "I know you lost it" or w/e because then she'll get defensive so it won't work. try saying it in a nicer way). don't give up. good luck!
2006-10-27 13:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want it back right away, no excuses, you were kind enough to lend it to her as she should return it or replace it. and it does not matter that you will not be using it again, it is your property tell her to give it back
2006-10-27 13:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should march over to her house order her to give it back to you tell her if you do not get it back that you will call the copes.
2006-10-27 13:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by goddessbelldandie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋