Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

We're muslims and were married Islamic way October 20th. We were married in my husband's house and need a copy of the certificate so I can enter Makkah.

2006-10-27 14:17:20 · 8 answers · asked by baddrose268 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i used to find that i'd run home to talk to my bf, that he'd make me smile all the time. i'd wanna be there to support him. now if i'm sleeping and he calls me (he calls me 4am, if i call 4am he would be pissed), i cant get back to sleep because he upsets me, he had a problem with me the other day and i needed some space so i didn't call him for a day, and i felt ok, but the next two days felt so bad, talking to him. i call round to see him sometimes because i wanna make things better, and i never used to go to sleep on an argument or anything. but i dont feel better. i'd just like to go out, have a good time with him, be fun, romantic, loving. he doesn't wanna break up or anything, he wants to get married and things. i dont need much but what i need i'm not getting.

2006-10-27 14:17:07 · 9 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 14:16:46 · 8 answers · asked by krist2030 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents found out dat I did drugs and dat I drank. they took my phone away from me and won't let me hang out wit my friends. I have been grounded for 3 months. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-27 14:16:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

it can be about anything

2006-10-27 14:15:38 · 11 answers · asked by krist2030 2 in Singles & Dating

ok....... theres this girl that asked me out (she actually had her freind ask) and i said let me think please. well, the next day she had her friend ask me again and i was goin to say yes when my friend butted in and said no to try and be funny and before i could say what i wanted to, her friend was telling her that i said no when i didnt! i dont have the guts to say i like her right up to her face so what should i do???

2006-10-27 14:14:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 14:14:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lol just trying figue out if this chick likes me or not....she is only in one class of mine, and i occassionaly see her in the halls, but we have never talked....

some quirky behavior she has been up to is:
1. during class, i sometimes catch her looking in my general direction (from the corner of my eye)

2. while walking in the halls, she and her friends are walking in front of me, but then she turns around and sees me then, slows down and stops there (sort of weird, like waiting for me to pass)

3. caught her looking in my direction several times during the pep rally (she is a cheerleader, i was in the bleachers)

4. while walking into class, she looks at me


haha yea, this is sort of weird, and she is freakin me out.....i am amost positive this girl is not mentally retarded or anything

is she trying to get my attention or something, i mean we have nvr talked to each other....

thanks, sorry for such a long question!!

2006-10-27 14:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by d29061 2 in Singles & Dating

As a fifteen year-old female, I find it very disconcerting to see people mistaking me for 20 and up. At school, a girl randomly walked up to me and said "How old are you? Cause, you look really old." I replied with a "How old do I look?" She said I looked 24. 24 years old, a full 9 years older than my actual age. Another man tried to speak to me, and older man, mind you. After I told him I had just turned 15, he said "I'm sorry." It's amusing, and it can come in handy at times, but it's not really a reputation I want to keep up. I'm not overweight, either, and I'm a junior in high school. What steps should I take to "look younger"? I know 15 is a very young age to start thinking about getting older, but wow. Do I really appear to be that old?

Thanks.

2006-10-27 14:13:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 14:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to a university re-union recently, and met a bloke that I haven't seen for several years. He was a good friend of mine who always had lots of girlfriends because he was the really good-looking, out-going type. But he looked truly awful.

He said he had a really bad marriage and lost everything, and he's decided it's better to be on his own that risk all that heartache again. I feel that he has truly given up hope of finding a compatible partner and has decided to devote his life to his work. It's obvious he really means it (I suggested he meet a female friend of mine and he basically said no chance). He's coming round for dinner next Wednesday.

I know that he is a decent, intelligent man who has a lot to offer. How can I convince him that he should meet other women?

2006-10-27 14:11:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with this guy for about a year and we are in love. the only thing is he lives in a different country. we always talk about getting married and starting a family. we were supposed to get engaged next summer. the problem is I recently met an amazing man that lives near me. i have fallen for him also. I am worried i will make the wrong decision and end up with the wrong guy. both these guys are AMAZING. my family already knows my long distance love and they love him very much. they also met this new guy and liked him also. how do i choose who i want. i am so confused.please help.

2006-10-27 14:11:23 · 4 answers · asked by Sally M 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, let's try this question again. Please read carefully. You KNOW she would be happy with EITHER one. She likes practical stuff. She likes fixing things, so she enjoys tools. She's broke and she could use some new socks. And she appreciates the thought behing a gift too. It's all good to her. Say that she would be just as happy whether you buy her flowers or make a homecard or if you got her a nice pipe wrench or some wool socks... what kind of gift would you rather give? So, the question is about YOU. What kinds of gifts do YOU like to give? Do you like picking flowers from the field? Do you like shopping for clothes? Do you like drawing a handmade card? What kind of gifts do YOU like to give?

2006-10-27 14:10:56 · 13 answers · asked by pamgissa 3 in Singles & Dating

I am happy at times and theres times when I get really upset. I am a single mom I have a daughter who is 2 and I love her to death I live in california I don't have a job and sometimes I wish I was married. Do these things about me have anything to do with my mood swings.

2006-10-27 14:09:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I am going to be meeting for the frist time told me to call him at 7 tonight so I did and got his answering machine. I told him to give me a call when he gets this message. well 8 o'clock came round and he just text messaged me telling me he is playing a game with his brother and will call me later. We have our kinda first date tomorrow, but I cant help feel like I was just brushed off by him just now when he said he was to busy to talk to me and sounded like he'd rather be with his brother than talk to me. I am I taking this to personal?? I should I be offened by what he said?

2006-10-27 14:08:21 · 10 answers · asked by Imyourfantasy4u 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 14:08:16 · 11 answers · asked by codeman 1 in Friends

Ladys what is the best advice you can give a guy on shaving or triming down there? Should i trim and if so how short?

2006-10-27 14:08:02 · 3 answers · asked by Jellybean 1 in Singles & Dating

Getting married and later not in it, is it the right thing to do. Some people go into married life today and tomorrow thy're off from it for one reason or the other. Now-a-days people go into marriage knowing that the marriage wont last and they will still go on and do it. ....Please i need your answer on this topic.

2006-10-27 14:06:53 · 15 answers · asked by click1112 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 14:06:37 · 22 answers · asked by xxl0v3f00lxx 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend started going out and in at least 2 weeks he told me that he loved me he treats me really good i can really tell that he likes me but does it mean he loves me he always tells me that he does and that he would never hurt me but i wonder if he really knows what he feels for me but probably he does love me cuz i really do love him alot waht do you think.plz help.

2006-10-27 14:06:14 · 16 answers · asked by dance4life 1 in Singles & Dating

im a freshman in high school and there's this girl that i've been friends with for a while and im starting to like her. shes a great person to talk to and shes really hot. i dont think i have a chance with her but i don't know because she says she loves pretty often and she says im so nice and i make her laugh. now this sounds like she likes meand like shes flirting but the problem is she did kinda the same thing to my friend last year and it ended up not working. he did do some things to screw it up though which i havent done yet. i really can't tell. and a lot of people are probably say go for it but i have alot of classes with her and i don't want things to be akward.
help me please. preferably women cause you can tell me better advice than guys.
if you can give me more help with more info just ask
id be happy
i really want to be with this girl

2006-10-27 14:06:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is a jr high dance 7th and 8th grade and should i go with a guy or go with my friends we are haveing a dj and it is called the fall fling i have this realy hot dress what should i do and if you know any 8th grades that would like to go out with me please tell them i am free

2006-10-27 14:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and like old men they pull them up practically under there chin,s and my wife is only 36 She says its for comfort. still ?she is still as sweet as she was at sixteen............

2006-10-27 14:03:53 · 33 answers · asked by belter777 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a loveless marriage. My husband likes me and he loves the lifestyle we've built. But he spends all his time and energy on hobbies and selfish interests. I am over 40 now...maybe this is all you get. If I leave it will be about starting over and that seems insurmountable...if I stay its just one boring day after another...yes we've talked about it. He says its been too hard on him and he is not investing emotionally...whatever the heck that means....for me its been months since anyone has asked how my day was or been engaged in conversation....I am mostly lonely. I long for partnership. Should I settle for security and a quiet comfortable place to live? Our kids are grown and out on their own. I am recently retired due to illness so I have a great deal of time on my hands... I am volunteering and involved with church... so do I just stand by do my duty and keep facing loveless, romanticless marriage (he skipped my last two birthdays and we rarely celebrate anniversaries

2006-10-27 14:03:35 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetserenity 3 in Marriage & Divorce

yeah. he's going to college about 300 miles away and i want to make him a cd to take when he leaves. do you know any good songs i could put on the cd? oldies, current songs, idc.

2006-10-27 14:02:55 · 17 answers · asked by dreamingincolor97 1 in Singles & Dating

i think that this guy i'm dating for three months now is married but i don't know how to find out and i keep hearing rumors that he is....he's in the military (drill instructor) and my friends say that most of them are ......how can i find out the truth?

2006-10-27 14:02:08 · 14 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there was a guy i was really good friends with. ppl suspected we were dating, but we weren't. so a couple of weeks ago he told me when we were play flirting that he didn't want to anymore...i'm guessing he's got a new gf, but idk, and lately he hasn't talked to me for more than 5 minutes at a time...i really miss him. HELP!!!

2006-10-27 14:01:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-27 14:01:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 14:01:37 · 13 answers · asked by Ced T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought my husband was outside raking leaves, but he came in to get a drink and I was on the phone with my sister and he heard me telling my sister that I thought he was being a meanie to me yesterday. He came in the room and my heart just about stopped! I had to get off the phone and he told me that because I called him a name I would have to sleep in my own bed in the nursery with the baby. In me and my husbands large master bedroom we have a king size bed and then he has a small single bed for me in the corner to sleep in when I am on my period. He says he doesn't want to sleep with an unclean woman, but atleast he is in the room with me. Now he set up the single bed in the nursery and says I have to sleep there for a month. He knows I am scared to sleep without another adult in the room in the dark. It's always been like this since I was little. My older sister slept in my room with me a lot when I was growing up and then when she left my mom would let me sleep with her.

2006-10-27 14:01:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce