i used to find that i'd run home to talk to my bf, that he'd make me smile all the time. i'd wanna be there to support him. now if i'm sleeping and he calls me (he calls me 4am, if i call 4am he would be pissed), i cant get back to sleep because he upsets me, he had a problem with me the other day and i needed some space so i didn't call him for a day, and i felt ok, but the next two days felt so bad, talking to him. i call round to see him sometimes because i wanna make things better, and i never used to go to sleep on an argument or anything. but i dont feel better. i'd just like to go out, have a good time with him, be fun, romantic, loving. he doesn't wanna break up or anything, he wants to get married and things. i dont need much but what i need i'm not getting.
2006-10-27 14:17:07 · 9 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL YEAH YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!! you can go clubing and have some real fun
2006-10-27 14:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there has to be a level of respect. If he knows that you are asleep at 4 a.m....why is he calling? This is the first sign of an unhealthy relationship. The second sign of unhealthiness is the person that you are with making you feel bad on a regular basis. If you are not getting what you need from someone (especially after you have exhausted all of your efforts on making healthy progress), don't waste your life trying to make a person what they are not. Your boyfriend is probably a good person, just not the right one for you. Life is too short to spend it on an emotional rollercoaster. Figure out what it is that you want and go after it. Good luck, sweetie!
2006-10-27 21:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you are on a slippery slope. Tell him that you dont like the calling and stuff, and what you want. If he doesnt try to fix things or cant, lose him, you deserve to be happy.
2006-10-27 21:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by C J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i would say to him i want to see other people at this time and then see if i feel more about u because i am not very happy
2006-10-27 21:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to exit this relationship it will be hard at first but be honest you dont love this guy you pity him and a month after your broke up you will see that
2006-10-27 21:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure your getting what you want before you get married......then he'll think he own you and that would be bad for you......oh by the way i'm single.....wink wink.....lol
2006-10-27 21:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by glduke2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible you're just not compatible.
2006-10-27 21:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whut is the question?
2006-10-27 21:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate with him...
2006-10-27 21:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋