This guy I am going to be meeting for the frist time told me to call him at 7 tonight so I did and got his answering machine. I told him to give me a call when he gets this message. well 8 o'clock came round and he just text messaged me telling me he is playing a game with his brother and will call me later. We have our kinda first date tomorrow, but I cant help feel like I was just brushed off by him just now when he said he was to busy to talk to me and sounded like he'd rather be with his brother than talk to me. I am I taking this to personal?? I should I be offened by what he said?
2006-10-27
14:08:21
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Imyourfantasy4u
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
By the way we are both 25
2006-10-27
14:09:54 ·
update #1
Normally, I would say you're taking it too personal, but he DID tell you to call him at 7:00, so at the least, that was really rude. In the dating world, consider him to have lost mega-points with you before your first date even happened. If anything like this happens again, consider it a strike-out and move on to another guy.
2006-10-27 14:22:00
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answered by Jess H 7
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You are taking this too personally. You haven`t even met yet. Take it easy and give him a little space. Maybe he WOULD rather be with his brother right now but that doesn`t mean anything just yet. Wait until you have been dating or at least until after you have met to get jealous or upset about something like that. Don`t be offended. He probably meant nothing by it. Maybe it is too noisy where he is to call you. Maybe he doesn`t feel comfortable talking to you and being romantic in front of his brother. There are a lot of possibilities. At least he did text you and didn`t just leave you hanging until he was done with his brother or make you wonder what was up. Don`t feel bad about this. It isn`t a big deal and I`m sure he meant nothing by it. Good luck on your date!!! Hope you have fun!
2006-10-27 21:14:59
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answered by Ex-Blondie 3
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I think he was kind of rude.He DID tell you to call HIM.So ...if he can't get off of his fat butt to to have a brief conversation with you then why even bother going out with him anyway? He's showing you what kind of person he is upfront so if you still decide to go out with him , don't be surprised if he acts like a self absorbed jerk later. Know what I mean?
2006-10-27 21:16:06
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answered by Yahooanswerssux 5
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You are taking this to personal. It's his family. Maybe he doesnt' have a lot of time to spend with his brother and he's spending time with him right now. So, just don't take it personal just calm down.
2006-10-27 21:11:19
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answered by Sweet Girl 2
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He's playing it cool, that's for sure. Do you want a cool guy, or a warm one? This guy will be out playing poker 4 nights a week if you get married.
2006-10-27 21:12:06
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answered by Anonymous
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you're taking this to personally, since you haven't even officially met each other.
He was spending time with his brother which should show you that family is important to him.
2006-10-27 21:28:23
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answered by gypse76 3
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I would tell him how you feel and give him another chance. If he doesn't understand why you are upset, or does this again, forget him.
2006-10-27 21:11:32
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answered by C J 7
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well i would listen to ur hart and do whatever ur hart says to do ur hart is smart it will tell u the right time to cal him and not to call him
2006-10-27 21:12:16
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answered by superbudz14 2
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forget him......if he really wanted to meet you, he would have been there when you called....
2006-10-27 21:13:34
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answered by glduke2003 4
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well......two kids belong toge there
2006-10-27 21:11:43
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answered by Dr shiznet 2
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