Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

my husband of four years goes out all the time and kicks it with is boys- never tells me where he's going and always comes back past two. mean while im expected to sit at home with our three children and do nothing. he never asks me to come with and if i want to go some where with my friends its a problem. he wont wiatch the kids so i end up sitting at home while he goes out. I cant afford a baby sitter and i feel like this is wearing on me. Am i the only one with ths problem and what you you all do if you where me?

2006-10-26 19:04:21 · 11 answers · asked by Chava 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 19:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by Jezabel the annoyed cat 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 19:01:14 · 7 answers · asked by animal_lover 1 in Friends

i and my ex boyfriend broke up about 2 months ago, and just because we work together its really hard for me to move on... and the promise of (us) getting back together was there but i cant wait for him anymore. he lies to his friend whenever he's with me (on my face) saying that he's somewhere else doing something and that hurts a lot... im done being hurt, and im ready to move on... to have fun and be happy again... is there any guy here from cali too that feels the same way?

2006-10-26 19:00:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend has been in a relationship with this girl for about a year and a half now. She has also been a good friend of mine for nearly as long. Today when he went to work, she and I went on a walk which turned into a 3 hour conversation. She has started to act differently around me lately; more "friendly" flirting in combo with more open conversation about things like their relationship and the past. I have also started to feel something for her, but what am I suppost to do? He is going in the marines next october, and she and I will be going to the same college. Some suggestions would be much appreciated. - Matt

2006-10-26 19:00:07 · 20 answers · asked by Matt W 1 in Singles & Dating

wanting to know if the "what goes around comes around" has happened to cheaters in their new relationships after divorce...

2006-10-26 18:58:54 · 26 answers · asked by almostover 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband lives in dubai and im in the Philippines..sometimes when i phone him. his cellphone is OFF when we initially agreed not to turn off the phone in case there are emergencies...and its usually off at the same time of the day..do you know he is with someone else..considering he is out there...

2006-10-26 18:57:54 · 7 answers · asked by black.berries 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do men really like to go down on women or do u think they just do it to please the women? Ladys what do u think do they like it?

2006-10-26 18:55:11 · 26 answers · asked by lara s 1 in Singles & Dating

height(im only 5'8 but ill take no offense)... jus in general... im sure this has been asked but i jus want to leave it open ended and here some imput from the ladies... dudes just stfu....

2006-10-26 18:54:24 · 4 answers · asked by SuperStation 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 18:53:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks, and we haven't kiss yet! He's pretty shy around me also. What should i do so that he'll kiss me. Should I make a move first?Is there anything that i can do to show him that i want him to kiss me? Please please help! I really love him!

2006-10-26 18:53:00 · 12 answers · asked by billy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 18:52:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Eventho he was in a loving supportive relationship.. he still cheated. why? How can I get over it??

2006-10-26 18:52:05 · 14 answers · asked by PinUpGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-26 18:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-26 18:50:41 · 22 answers · asked by Red 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me if this is crazy. I think women can sometimes read minds, especially men's. It's not like read read, but she can sense his motives and feelings. Is this true?

I live in a family full of females and lying was not all that easy, so I've developed a skill to totally blank out my mind whenever women try to sense my motives. Whey they try to feel and sense if I am true or not, they can't read out anything because my mind is at a total blank.

It's wired but that's my thoughts. Also, do women have the gift of seeing through peoples motives? I think it's call a woman's intuitions. Please share your insights.

2006-10-26 18:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by Inquisit 2 in Family

Okay trying to find the right words to explain. Boyfriend and I been together for 2 yrs and a 1/2. He deployed to Iraq in Feb 06. He doing a year deployment. Since he's doing a whole year, they let him come home for two weeks. He just got here yesterday. He wants to go to the club tonight which is cool ( I have trust issues with him since before he left and he gave me reasons and i'm trying to work through them) anyways I have a good feeling he going to hook up with another girl (like actually going just to meet this one girl) I'm not ugly I work out not demading I take care of myself two jobs. I don't know what to say to him. Can someone please give a little guidance?

2006-10-26 18:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by fiestylady 3 in Singles & Dating

birth year, 1965. born at danial freeman hosp in Ingelwood calif would have to half sisters,43 and 45. last name might be mainard

2006-10-26 18:48:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Up until my last relationship I used to enjoy giving oral sex to my boyfriends but since we broke up (4 years ago) I can't seem to bring myself to do it. with my new boyfriend..what can I do to get back into it?It should be a 2 way street and I feel guilty for not returning the deed.Any advice ?

2006-10-26 18:47:46 · 12 answers · asked by pammi_b 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 18:47:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance and I have been together for 2 years, and we love each other very much. I just graduated nursing school and work full time plus, and he goes to school full time. We don't have much time together, but lately he has been going online and talking to other women. He says it means nothing, but that he gets lonely and needs someone to talk to. What can I do to get his attention and make the most of our time together? Is it a lost cause?

2006-10-26 18:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she just sent a e-mail and I cant respond to it.

2006-10-26 18:44:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-26 18:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by Ned B 1 in Singles & Dating

Dinner and a movie or something along those lines? Going out to the bar or party?

2006-10-26 18:44:19 · 5 answers · asked by WELL WELL 1 in Singles & Dating

After being with your spouse for more than eight years what was the last straw?

2006-10-26 18:44:09 · 13 answers · asked by serendipity_siren 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Since this guy, (that I've had a casual sex relationship w/ for over a year) moved recently, I sent him an email of how I felt about him. He responded, but didn't go into great deal about what his feelings were because he's always been shy to show emotions, he's like that w/ everyone. Before he left he told me in a serious tone that I could call him whenever I needed someone to talk to, probably opening the door up for some serious talk. Anyway, I wrote that email to him about 2 weeks ago, and then just the other day I called him, kinda drunk, but mentioned something about this tape that we made in the very beginning-I said, "hey I was wondering if you could send me a copy of something..you know what I mean.." & then I hung up, but I was being silly, & thought he'd laugh. So I was wondering if I threw him off by finally being serious w/ him, but then going back to being sexually silly? lol does that make sense? I haven't talked to him since the other day, how do I recover from that?

2006-10-26 18:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to find my true self and live a Christian lifestyle. My problem is letting go of anger. I was abused growing up and had a father who's only way of communicating was yelling, throwing something across the room, hitting, punching, and calling myself, my sister, and I horrible names. My parents divorced three years ago and since then my Mom has become very ill mentally. She has always struggled, throughout my childhood, with bipolar disorder, neediness, and obsessive compulsive disorder; however, when she tried living alone, after my Dad left it just didn't work out so human services removed her from her home into a group home two years ago. I have so much anger and hate in me and blame my Dad for what my Mother has been going through; however, to truly live a Christian lifestyle I must forgive my Dad and move on. How can I do this? I have lifted up the phone several times to call him, but I can't bring myself to do it.

2006-10-26 18:39:42 · 9 answers · asked by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 in Family

2006-10-26 18:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by kissmyface 1 in Singles & Dating

my christian friend waited til she was married but even her husband didnt. i have no problem that she waited, i am just curious why anyone wouldnt want to try before they buy? i know its for a "special one" but what if the special one turned out to be a crap one? but then i guess you wouldnt know?? lol

2006-10-26 18:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for the past week i have been really sick i havnt been able to keep anything down and i have passed out twice but i am helping my friend throw a party and i dont want to let him down by not showing up or being sick so i have kept it a secret. plus whenever i am either sick or hurt this friend kind of ignores me and i hate that so i dont want him to know im sick. i have just been REALLY careful about not sharing any drinks and keeping a distance but now another one of my friends found out how sick i was and doesnt want me to go to the party tomorrow

what should i do?

2006-10-26 18:34:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends