my christian friend waited til she was married but even her husband didnt. i have no problem that she waited, i am just curious why anyone wouldnt want to try before they buy? i know its for a "special one" but what if the special one turned out to be a crap one? but then i guess you wouldnt know?? lol
2006-10-26 18:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HIV,STD'S,Pregnancy and self respect.
try it before you buy it?No returns or refunds?
I always thought there was more to a relationship than
Sex.
If it is really love, anything is possible under the sheets, if it isn't love then what do you have...just sex.personal enjoyment that is meaningless?
I have had many friends experience heart ache due to sex before marriage; their choice.
It's a personal choice for each of us to make, not something that should be pushed from either direction.
"Personal choice, knowing what you want and always playing it safe".
2006-10-26 18:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a chrstian and I did not remain a virgin due to my religion it was a matter of my choice and taking the time to know myself , before I let some man know me in an intimate way. and was taught how to please from (can not name source ) but when I did marry I was prepared to be with some one and not feel ashamed of my body or my inexperience on my honey moon as to the coming together as man and wife..I almost for got a union of two souls is not a let mesee if it fits, or can I test drive it before I walk in church to get married, no man is crappy if he has been taught to love and make his partner happy it is woman who expect too much of what sex should be like .
2006-10-27 01:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are tons of reasons avoiding pregnancy and stds are two not feeling ready to add that complication to your life is anther. its really a personal choice every young women has to make and there really isnt one reason why some women wait and with your comment on try before buy if you have never had sex with anyone else you would never know if your partner was bad.
2006-10-27 01:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by heather d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it ain't about sex than you can wait. if your relationship is based on lust then go ahead. True love can wait it's much more special. you are in need of patience young lady. I'm surprised at you talking like this... i would expect the man to ask this question. be blessed and smile
2006-10-27 01:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I'm worth waiting for. I don't need men using my body for their pleasure, and only that. I'm more than a body, more than a hook up. I'm sacred, moral, pure. I have standards. I'm no one's leftovers, I'm not used. I'm a life partner. I'm a human being, and I mean something. Love means more than sex. And if a man isn't willing to wait until he makes that commitment, then he doesn't get to taste me.
2006-10-27 12:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a very important part of life and you really need to make sure its going to be OK before getting married.
2006-10-27 01:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron in OZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea i think you should definetly know what you're getting into brfore you marry the person sex is a big part of a relationship
2006-10-27 01:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by damnitjannet09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to show that u haven't been around. i think guyz who get married with virgins have a privilage cuz u can harly find them now in dayz!!!
2006-10-27 01:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnancy pregnancy trust me baby girl once you have a baby that changes your whole life and prospective on having sex if your a single mother
2006-10-27 01:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STD's pregnancy heartbreak, etc.
2006-10-27 01:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋