Up until my last relationship I used to enjoy giving oral sex to my boyfriends but since we broke up (4 years ago) I can't seem to bring myself to do it. with my new boyfriend..what can I do to get back into it?It should be a 2 way street and I feel guilty for not returning the deed.Any advice ?
2006-10-26 18:47:46 · 12 answers · asked by pammi_b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me add that my ex was extremly abusive and forceful in bed. He ended up going to jail for doing the same things to his next girlfriend. I am greatful he is gone out of my life and I feel sorry for his next girlfriend/victim !
2006-10-26 19:04:11 · update #1
.....perhaps if he just foreplays you instead, with carressing, kissing, and licking, then once he's got you hot, fired up and as horny as hell, he should simply refuse to penetrate you......That way if youre just left sitting there stunned and bewildered as hot and horny as hell, and hes simply standing in front of you as rigid and hard as rock, there would probably be a fairly good chance, youll lunge at him to satisfy yourself. If it works, the oral questions solved, meaning all that's left is the main course.......
2006-10-26 20:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this isn't such a hard question to answer either you like to satisfy your mate or you don't? You shouldn't have any hang up from your last relationship....I'm sure he doesn't.Some couples just don't connect orally, so it may be just the person you're with.. It he is pressing you to do it then maybe you should tell him why you have reservations and take it from there.. I'm sure you can easily work that out...
2006-10-27 01:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it takes time to do things like that again to new ppl, you cant just up and do it, it will take time to put your trust into this new boyfriend of yours, and you have to be comfortable with him for kissing and being around him, and after a while, you should be alright in doing that to him, but make sure he does it back to you as well, it should be a give and take situation. I hope this helped.
2006-10-27 01:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting him to let you wash him up first,this will help you and him to be more intimate with each other,also you need to come to terms with your past,you've moved on,and you now have someone new,try turning the lights out and do it in the dark for a while until you become more comfortable with the ideal.Good luck.
2006-10-27 01:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did it for your ex because you loved him to do oral. You can't do it now to your new bf because you still love the previous one. Forget the past and move on with your life and build new relationship with the present bf.
2006-10-27 01:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you still have feelings for the x, and you have created a mental block against the good things you did to make the x feel good, well get off of it and try to realize that the past is over, now you have a new man and you have to make him feel good for he is good to you.
2006-10-27 01:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to give oral everytime you're in a relationship but that's my opinion. Don't push yourself to do something you don't want to and that will come when you are ready. If he's not complaining about you not givin don't push that either but I can tell you he may be thinking it.
2006-10-27 01:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by awhisper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey...you just have to start over slowly...any man will be more than happy to be orally pleasured...just take your time and enjoy yourself and get rewarded at the end with your creamy dessert...at the same time your man will be blissfully satisfied and content
2006-10-27 10:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by joyce smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could watch a porn movie, a professional and get some tips.
2006-10-27 01:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ease into it...Just do it little by little and eventually it will become natural again and you will get used to it and enjoy it...
2006-10-27 01:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋